Try to see things from our side for a bit....  

Weirdie 58M
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7/29/2006 3:14 pm

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Try to see things from our side for a bit....


Sorry I haven't been very good company lately. Yeah, I do enjoy talking to you all, and enjoy your responses (those of you who have the cojones to respond, anyway). But I've kinda had attitude issues lately, and wanted to get a little more rational before I vented about it.

Why have I had attitude issues? Hmmm... how can I put this... because so many people who claim to like couples SUCK, maybe?

Women who want to flirt, and talk about getting together.... but it's all talk, smoke with no fire. If it's all talk, say so please. Be honest. We'll still flirt with you anyway, and you'll just have to forgive us if you are trumped by someone who *actually* wants to play.

Men and women both who *think* they want to play with a couple, and then act like we're incredibly sick and disgusting because we aren't as prudish as they are. You're the one looking for a couple, do you really have room to talk?

Men and women both who *claim* to want a couple, but the truth is that they want one partner, and wish the other one would just go away.

Ya know, I've said a fair amount about what a stupid idea monogamy is,and I stand by it. Looking at the above, many people would say, "You see? That's why monogamy is the only rational choice in a loving relationship." And to be fair, I can see a certain amount of justice in that view.

But the flaw isn't in polyamory or swinging. The flaw is in the apparently VAST numbers of people who will lie to themselves, lie to you, and insult both you and your partner, if that's what it takes for them to have the chance to fuck you, literally and figuratively.

Well.... fuck you too. I try HARD not to be rude to people.... but I think I'm gonna start making exceptions for folks like those described above.

Tiger_Rose40s 54F

7/29/2006 4:24 pm

I agree with you about where the flaw is.

It amazes me how many people are willing to waste their time and mine with attempts to meet that are never going to happen.

Just wanted to commiserate.


Raveheart2005 49M

7/30/2006 4:07 pm

well said Brudda ^5 and yank thier chains leav um inchoerent appreciate you and grrl and your freindship...Rave


smart_n_sassy58 58F

8/3/2006 7:41 pm

If I may quote Dr. Seuss

"Be who you are and say what you feel,because those
who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"
Dr. Seuss

* Sassy *


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