Want_It_ALLXXX 30F
15 posts
7/14/2006 2:03 am

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11/5/2006 7:11 pm


To be pampered; to be doted upon; to be spoilt; to be treated like a princess

Why is so hard to find a man who even knows where to start? Even just how to be a gentleman?

I have discussed this with a number of ladies and they all agree that we are lacking in such gentlemen. So what’s going on?

What do you think?

ShaneLiveLife 50M

7/14/2006 3:27 am

This sounds like a loaded question !

First of all you deserve to be treated like a lady

.... the problem is you don't live in Europe

.......... where all the gentlemen are !

Live with passion !

LoyalOximeShred 41F

7/14/2006 3:46 am

I think in order for men to become gentlemen and women to become ladies there needs to be someone in their lives to set the standard. This is where the problem lies. The majority of "serial daters" are out for selfish pleasure and don't really care about the mindset they leave behind. How many ex-relationships have you witnessed or perhaps had that ended horribly? The result of that kind of relationship is a bitter ex-boyfriend which, in turn, treats future dates like crap and allows the cycle to continue.

I have found that the best way to get those desires fulfilled (pampering, spoiling, etc.) is by setting them as a condition tight from the start. That way, your significant other can't claim to not know what it is you want out of the relationship

When love and skill work together, expect a masterpiece.
-John Ruskin

Want_It_ALLXXX 30F
4 posts
7/14/2006 4:12 am

Shane i have to say yes i've been to the EU and i do agree, Australian mails have this real blokey marcho thing. Dont get me wrong i do like it sometimes but there needs to be a balance

Want_It_ALLXXX 30F
4 posts
7/14/2006 4:17 am

Hey Poetic_Seeks

I know what you mean but to be honest it is not the same if you have to iniciate it, it should be second nature. Believe me if it doesnt happen i dont stick around let alone even get stuck in the first place but it gets rather frustrating as i am picky and will remain picky.


waterdragon67 63M

7/14/2006 10:15 pm

mmm gentlemen are (even in Europe im sure)rare. I think comes down to respect for yourself firstly then for your partner or prospective partner. I dont want to treat a lady like a princess --- to me a princess is an ideal perfect unattainable figure --- the person im interested in has flaws and bad habits the same as me.
BUT to treat with respect means flowers dining out getting to know the person and then trying hard not to hurt them --- i say trying because it can be very difficult to not hurt someone especially when you become close and the hurt is usually unintentional

rm_yeahbaby5677 45M

7/23/2006 11:19 pm

I do not believe that gentleman only live in EU. My belief is that experience in life is the answer. When a person has experienced the ebbs and flows of realtionships and has identified not only what they want from a partner, but how they want to be treated, then they become what is seen as a gentleman

kewlbeanz4fun 47M

7/30/2006 8:41 am

Being a Gentleman is an art, and most men don't take the time to practice it. A Lady, must allow a man to be a gentleman. In this post feminist world I find it refreshing that ladies are coming back to allowing a man to be a gentleman. Open the doors, let them go first, stand up up for them and do not all ill words or intents to go unchallenged by inferior men.

The female form is the most beautiful creation the Great Spirit has given us. It should be worshipped and adored. I live my life by this and my Goddes will agree, for this is how I treat her.

Until next time, ciao!

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