Why I'm not a Player  

Wakimemofurazu 42M
4 posts
8/6/2006 1:37 am

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9/5/2006 12:30 pm

Why I'm not a Player

Some devolved aspect of me thinks wistfully back on the times that I'd get a boner for anything female that breathed and wore panties. There is something to be said (maybe) for orgasming your way through life without regard to intimacy.

Maybe that was me ten years ago. But not now. Last night I was lucky enough to get a massage. It was spectacular and very soothing. And sexy. As she moved her hands up my thigh, she asked me if I wanted a blowjob. I realized that I didn't even know her name. We hadn't even kissed.

It may make me less of a man by some definitions that I turned her down. But you know what? I think I like it like this. I'm having the best sex of my life (maybe a little less frequently).

To the women here: if you can't hang with the fact that I want more than just sex, there are an awful lot of guys here more than willing to meet your needs.

Don't get me wrong. I love a good fuck as much as anyone. I just want to feel the desire coming from my head first, not from between my legs.

Ana_6973 43F

8/6/2006 2:55 am

After just having responded to a man who thought the way into my bed was to tell me he thinks I look like I'd give good head, this is a refreshing post to see from a man.

It's nice to know men want to be stimulated mentally as well as physically too.


~~"I can scream as loud as your last one, but I can't claim innocence."~~

crazygurl2xx 57F

9/5/2006 7:28 am

you're gonna end up happily married, you know that, right? the force of your certainty is going to draw your partner to you as sure as the sun rises...

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