Narcissistic Personality Disorder  

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1/22/2006 1:36 pm

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Narcissistic Personality Disorder

I devote this entire Blog to niceguy who has made himself into being a pimple on my ass & a major pain in the ass to all he comes into contact with.

Individuals with narcissistic personality disorder show an exaggerated sence of self-importance, a preoccupation with being admired, and a lack of empathy for the feelings of others.

The grandiosity of narcissistic patients is manifested by a strong tendency to overestimate thier abilities and accomplishments,while often concurrently underestimating the abilities and accomplishments of others.

Thier sence of entitlement is frequently a source of astonishment to others,although they themselves seem to regard thier lavish expectations as merely what they deserve. They behave in stereotypical ways (for example, with constant self-references and bragging) to gain the acclaim and recognition that feeds thier grandiose expectations and thier fantasies of unlimited success,power,beauty,or brilliance.

Because they believe they are so special, they often think they can only be understood by other high-status people,or should only associate with such people. These tactics, to those around them, appear to be excessive efforts to make themselves look good.

Narcissistic personalities share another central element-they are unwilling to take the perspective of others, to see things other than "through thier own eyes." In more general terms, they lack the capacity for empathy, which is an essential ingredient for mature relationship.

In this sence all children begin life as narcissists and only gradually acquire a perspective-taking ability. For reasons that are far from entirely understood, some children do not show normal progress in this respect (ie: niceguy) , and indeed, in extreme cases, show little or none. The latter may grow up to become adult narcissictic personalities.

Along with the lack of empathy, narcissictic persons not uncommonly take advantage of others to achieve thier own ends and often show arrogant,snobbish,or haughty behaviors and attitudes. Finally, they are often very envious of other people (niceguy's constant BS towards pockets & myself) (pockets many friends & the respect they have for him, Me & my redneck tattoo'ed bumbass in my trailerpark with my smelly dogs) , or believe that other people are envious of them.(niceguys 5 bedroom house & his ever so briliant mind ).

Most researchers and clinicians believe that people with narcissistic personality disorder have a very fragile sence of self-esteem underneath all thier grandiosity. This may be why they are often preoccupied with what others think, why they show such a great need for admiration, and why they are so preoccupied with fantasies of outstanding achievement. Not surprisingly, they are also very sensitive to criticism, which may leave them feeling humiliated,empty,or full of rage.

Individuals with narcissistic personality patterns may not seek psychological treatment because they view themselves as nearly perfect and in no need of change.Those who do enter treatment often do so at the insistence of another person, and may terminate therapy prematurely-particularly if thier therapist is confrontational and questions thier self-serving behavior.

Most of what is known about narcissistic personality disorder has emerged from psychoanalytic therapy and later ego-analytic and self-psychology writings.

The psychodynamic treatment approach may be the most viable therapy, because a long-term treatment relationship seems needed to bring about changes in the patients persistent self-oriented patterns. However, there are unfortunately no controlled studies to date documenting the effectivness of this(or any other) form of treatment for narcissistic personality disorder.

Now that that there is dun did out of da way, I need ta call pockets & see iff'n him wants to stop by my trailer park & drink some jackmeoff daniels & some longneck budwiesers & hang out in my trailer with me & my smelly dogs & have our way with somen of da trailer park barbies here.

niceguy this blog is entirely devoted to you to boost your ego & let you know that you are the center of the universe & everybodies attention. I had your ass figured out from the beginning. Ya want attention? Well here is all the whole blog devoted to you.

HighPocKets1938 78M

1/22/2006 3:50 pm

I have to say that you have it down pretty good. My congrats on a job well done.

Oh btw, I noticed that another "nice" one has appeared in your other blog.
Sure sounds like some more of the same BS from the He/She/It.
(I must impress to the fullest that no disrespect is meant to the true T/G folks on site either.)

Btw, your idea of dropping by sounds good to me. That niceguy dis accomplish one good thing in his retorts. He/she ( ?) gave me a new respect for "real trailer trash"

Hope you got lots of jackmeoff daniels but I gonna pasa on them longnecks. They bring back some memories of my earlier days.
One of my earlier Ladies that I was with awhile back, she drank them longnecks, and she was running her fingers up and down the neck of that bottle, so I asked her what she was thinking about and she said “My ole boyfriend!”. Well I was kinda took back a step or two and said “Wisht you was thinking of me instead”. Well sir, she just moved her fingers down onto the body of that bottle and said, “Oh, I do, but I still get sore down there when I think of you.”

Iffen yore dogs ain’t too particular but their company, I would proud to drop by the next time I am back that way.


1/22/2006 4:27 pm

One Southern boy & a Son to the South my hat is allways off to you pockets, if there was ever a Southern gentleman it would be you Sir & not myself by any means. LOL Someone got to behave themselves to show an example, & it sure the hell ain't me. LOL

& if you think after reading this blog that niceguy would even respond? He would not respond to therapy. LMFAO!

Perhaps we will see an end to niceguy & see more of niceTgurlguy? I do not know? But he has 99 more profiles to attack us all with.

Meanwhile Pop, I got to feed & let outside my smelly dogs out of my trailer. So let me get my cheap dogfood I got at the Wallmart & feed them there critters before they shit on my second hand carpet.

Your Southern redneck friend & son of the South, Ratchet

HighPocKets1938 78M

1/22/2006 11:30 pm

Lovey, of course you can join us, but you don't need to worry bout the lawn out there. Theres plenty of lawn, out by the hot tub. Course so folks dont think we some of them high falutin hoity toities, it has to be disquised to look like an old pickumuptruck with the tarp in the bed filled with rainwater. Good thinking bout the icebox too, 'cause we can always use another icebox out that way. We can use yours to keep the gallon jugs of MD20/20 and that good Strawberry Ripple that we keep on hand for the Real Ladies that like them midnight candlelit romantical dinners by the hot tub.


1/23/2006 12:49 pm

Ms Love, you know I would never say no to ya. As far as the lawn, Well there are some patches of grass out there, but only around where the pink flamingo's are.

The sofa we can put out on the deck that I never got around to finish,there is a partial roof over half of it & if it rains we can allways run a tarp over it.

We can put the frig next to the one in the driveway, allways have a ready supply of electric cords in the shed next to the duct tape & bungy cords. I need to clean out that shed anyway,cause granny got another 5 year stretch & I got to hold onto her shit untill she gets paroled. Is the frig Almond? Cause the one I have out there is & I like to keep things the same color ya know.

LadytoPleaseYou 64F
5447 posts
1/23/2006 3:24 pm

ROFL. Being a Southerner born and raised and by the grace of God, I really appreicate the humor. Now y'all gotta save me a seat on that there old couch cause I just might be joinin y'all.

Gosouth, my boy, I think you have niceguy pegged. Good job.

PENIS CHARMING....where are you?

HighPocKets1938 78M

1/23/2006 7:09 pm

Lady, not only is there a seat saved for you on the couch, but you also have a place reserved in the hot tub.


1/23/2006 8:56 pm

LadytoPlease, Y'all more than welcom on my couch any time. Plenty O longnecks & redneck to go round. Ms Love brought over another frig, so got more room to keep the longneck Budwiesers cold. Just make sure ya wear your daisy dukes & tubetop ya sexy thang ya!


1/23/2006 10:29 pm

Update on Granny:
Granny wrote & I got her letter in the mail today. She had a bit of a problem two days ago & has been unable to call collect. Seems that two days ago Uncle BillyBob came to visit her & after visit was over Granny got strip searched & they found she was try'n to smuggle in some percocet hidden in her false teeth & they found a pack O camels in her Kootchie.

They tacked on another six years to her 5 yr sentance. 5 more for the perc's & 1 yr for the smokes, she say she can't call for about 4 weeks cause they also took her phone privaliges away for a month.

Granny says its all good though cause they did not find her chew she stuck up her ass & that she uses the shitter for a spitune & can flush the evidence real quick like. Her also said that forget about pay'n her rent on her doublewide & ta tell Gramps to go ahead & sell it to Aunt Gertrude. After all Granny says that Gramps been screw'n Aunt Gert for years now & that its about time Granny screws her out of her money.

HighPocKets1938 78M

1/24/2006 2:25 am

Ratchet, you tell gramps he better give Gertie a good discount on that doublewide. At's only good business practice for specially good customers like Gertie. She can allus turn it into the best house in the whole county, specially if she fixes that back porch up a bit. Be sure to tell Gran, Pockets said hi and to keep her hopes up on the parole. Iffen she needs a job offer in order fur it to go thru, I will hire her to make sure the MD20/20 and Strawberry Ripple dont run out. She's always had the best pipeline to the leggers I ever heard tell of.

HighPocKets1938 78M

1/24/2006 11:10 am

This just in from Krissy herself;
This message is from miss krissy
hey cool peeps!
thanks for the messages!
SW3 (and all)- There was only a 10% chance the kidney was going...(I wonder how my last lottery tickets went?)
the profs all are surprised at how well I am doing already. the pain sux
R was great and very supportivethru all the pre op/admin procedures
I will spare my sister the transcribing of other "details" lol and he wants to go to Port Hardy for awhile to look after me
I started sitting & standing on day 2. Went for a bit of a walk yesterday but having a rough day today
but it will be better tomorrow I am sure with luck.
I will lose the epidural and the catheter leaving just the standard IV
They shut off the epi & gave me artificial "morphine"...NOT GOOD
I am sick of broth and jello
Anyways, sis has to get home
Krissy Kisses all around!

Maybe we can get her a specially soft spot on the sofa


1/24/2006 2:46 pm


Ofcourse she's got a spot on the sofa,We can stick her right in the middle so we can keep an eye on here.

I miss her posts, she has an attitude like me & just speaks her mind.
I'll put in a few good words tonight for her when I talk to the big guy in the sky tonight,He will be happy I'm ask'n for somth'n for somebody else for once instead of tell'n him if he gets me out of this one I'll never do it again.

I'll pass on the kite to Granny when I write her tonight. She has a gallon ziplock bag that she been lett'n the fruit cocktail settle in with the canned peaches & suryup, so it should be good to go in about a week or so, then I guess Ol Girl gonna get her ass in a sling again & lose phone calls for another dam month.

OK Pops, great to hear the news bout Ms Krissy, & if ya run accross LadytoPlease, let her know I got the longnecks on ice & am a wait'n her arrival.

LadytoPleaseYou 64F
5447 posts
1/24/2006 10:33 pm

MD20/20....I've put away a couple of bottles of that in my time. Trouble is I put them away in one night. I didn't get sick, but I wished all the next week that I had. What a KICK in the tush that was.
I got your message GoSouth and I will be there. I will bring the chips and the Rotel Tomatoes Dip

PENIS CHARMING....where are you?


1/25/2006 12:06 am

OK Ms Ladyto, I'll be a wait'n.
Ratchet here can not do the Ol mad dog,that stuff is worse than the shit Granny makes. LOL

I'll stick wit the longneck bottles of Bud & shooters of JimBeam. God I love that JimBeam!!! I got on stock JimBeam,Jack Daniels,Old Grandad,Youkon Jack,Canadian Mist,Wild Turkey,Crown Royal,allways got plenty O beer.

Got the 24 pk's of both Goody's & BC headache powder. Those two are allways well stocked in the medicine chest.

For eats we got lamb chops that the butcher had on special last week at the krogers,we got nice blue catfish steaks in the freezer,we split up between 3 of us, five 30 to 40 pound blue catfish we snatched up in the tidal of the James River.Venison chili,baked beans,red taters,plenty O fresh corn bread & even mincemeat cobbler.

HighPocKets1938 78M

1/25/2006 3:47 pm

Ratchet, you done made me hungry again. But bein' an ole Texas cowperson, I will have to pass on that there lamb. Us cattlemen and them sheepherders still don't get along but nowdays, we aint as ornery bout it like in the ole days. I think there might be some of my stock of Andole Sausage I order from Louisiana left, so I will just throw that in too, along with a few dozen pounds of crawdads and some snappin turkle. Never could unnerstan how sompin as ugly as a snappin turkle can taste so good.

HighPocKets1938 78M

1/27/2006 8:13 pm

Latest update on themisskrissy

okay, new information
Krissy (my deiting again) will not be out of hospital before monday...the biopsy results have come back & there is no "C" word in any of them, that is exceptionally good news.
"R" arrived here this evening & they are visiting as i write this
she is NOT in good spirits (but may be now...hmmm)
there are a few reasons why she is not being let out of hospital but i won't go into them at this point...there is nothing life threatening happening, but some things need to heal more before they let her go...
that's it...any further info i will pass on as i can...

If R is there with her I bet her spirits will soon be truely soaring.

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