From those of us deemed "less than perfect"....  

ViciousPleasure 55M/53F
23 posts
5/7/2006 10:07 am

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From those of us deemed "less than perfect"....

Well.....I received an interesting (if that's what you want to call it) comment regarding one of my erotic stories I have posted in the magazine section. Hmmmm. Seems some people find those of us who are "real" (not Ken and Barbie, or Paris Hilton...ugh) to be a waste of flesh. I find that slightly amusing, if not just plain sad. From this person's comments and profile, I would venture to say that us "real" folks have a lot more fun and a lot more friends than people who think they are "perfect" and cannot find anyone good enough for their standards.

I may not be reed-thin, anorexic, bleach blonde, siliconed and botoxed....but I am real. I am who I am and I make no apologies for that. I have lots of friends, lots of playmates, and plenty of people interested in getting to know me. I have great, witty conversations with many people and enjoy it very much. According to most of the men I know, they would rather be with "real" women than "Barbie" any day. The "Barbie" types tend to be cold fish in bed. God help them if they break a nail, mess up their hair, or get anything icky on them. *gasp*

I shouldn't have dignified the remark at all, but I couldn't help myself. I can't stand the arrogance of people like that. It must be lonely in their world where, as I told her, no one loves you quite as much as you do.

Anyway, thanks for letting me vent. I don't give a damn about other people's opinions of me....but I must admit it pissed me off because I really saw no need for the nastiness.

For those of you who LIKE my stories and are interested, I have posted another one. It's actually a continuation of the first one, also written in the third-person style that I use.

I hope you enjoy it. All real, honest feedback is welcome.

Have a great weekend, and erotic dreams to all!

GoddessOfTheDawn 105F
11238 posts
5/7/2006 10:39 am

Some people just won't get it ....

have a gud one ....

Knot4Everyone 40F

5/7/2006 10:47 am

Honey, nobody's perfect! That's what makes this such a fascinating world to live in!

anonymorous 43M

5/7/2006 11:02 am

i agree completely, i think im a pretty good catch. hard working guy, great job, good body, talented in bed, but i can seem to get even a conversation from these girls. let alone make any friends. maybe the tattoos scare em off, judging a book... well im patient, and have alot of time to kill. 28 days on the road at a time. i read you profile, you guys seem happy and enjoy your life. and i would absolutely love to be the guy in your fantacy! oh and barbies are cold fish in bed cause they gotta drink to black out to loosen up enough to let someone touch them, but at least then they will shut up about themselves for a minute. heh.

Ginnung 37M

5/8/2006 11:54 am

I find myself wondering why you didn't put your story in the Erotic Stories section (where everybody is there to read stories, so you'll get more meaningful feedback) or in your blog (where it will last a lot longer and will get your profile a lot more attention).

It's not that I'm trying to give you hell or some such, but I'm puzzled.

Ginnung 37M

5/8/2006 2:41 pm

Forgive my prior posting. It appears that AdultFriendFinder is being buggy and listing articles under the advice lines.

ViciousPleasure replies on 5/8/2006 7:05 pm:
I don't know why things are appearing to be in the advice lines area, when they really are not. At first I thought I was doing something wrong, but I guess it isn't just me. I wish they'd fix it, though. It's annoying.

hoozerman 55M
1 post
5/17/2006 9:20 am

Amen to that! Being perfect is in the eye of the beholder. The inportant thing is to be happy with who you are. The only person you truely have to please is that person you look at in the mirror. Keep writing the truth and those wonderful stories.

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