The Art of Kissing  

Veronique362836 37F
5 posts
1/29/2006 7:31 pm

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The Art of Kissing

My first entry, and I've decided to ask for comments on a key topic: Kissing.

I am inspired to write this after a recent weekend in playful Whistler where I had the pleasure of locking lips with a few strangers.

Man #1: After flirtatious conversation and a few glasses of wine, we find a cozy spot to test our skills. The lovely man strokes my jaw, runs his fingers over my lips and goes in for the kill. A rough kisser, his tongue quickly probes my mouth. His lips are soft, but tongue is hard and pushing so deeply into my mouth I nearly gag. I am not impressed and we part ways.

Man #2: This begins similarly, with laughs, flirtation, inuendo and more wine. Leaning against the bar, he puts his hand behind my neck and pulls me toward him. Our lips graze, then touch softly, he focuses on my bottom lip. Our tongues touch softly, he sucks in a little, lets warm air touch me. I get a little weak in the knees as we continue this give-and-take of lips and tongues. I am very impressed and we continue through the night...

For me the lip lock is a deal breaker. I want someone to hunger for me - but not shove his tongue down my through. I love tongues... but soft, explorative, seductive is what I want.

What do you think? Have you ever been told you are a great kisser? What makes you a seducer? Or have you been offered kissing tips? If someone is a terrible kisser, have you told them? I am curious, friends...


rm_metalhed187 32M
9 posts
1/30/2006 10:57 pm

i like suckin on the bottom lip... but i ain't too into the details of kissing..
i'd rather give it a try, if you're up for it!
i've heard girls dig the lip ring too

rm_RightNowHeHe 47M

1/31/2006 5:21 pm

Call me old fashion but being a great kisser must start with knowing the individual you are kissing and having, at least, some intimate feelings for.

In your experiment I am guessing Man#1 was the type of guy that can't wait, he just wanted to show you what he had and "give it to you". While Man#2 obviously got to know you and listened a little better, understood want you were looking for and was able to deliver.

I for one can't imagine kissing someone without getting to know at least who they are. I would equate kissing as intimate as sex, what's the rush!!

can_do_kevin 34M
2 posts
2/5/2006 8:57 pm

i've been told i kiss well many times. but regardless of that, a man has to realize that the first kiss is the key to a door that opens up to a world of fantasy for women. there's so much more to a kiss when you can feel a woman moaning inside and her knees beginning to tremble. subtle bites on a woman's bottom lip are a good way to allow her to build up the anticipation for the next time your slide your tongue ever so gently into her mouth. and soft hands, you caress a woman, not fondle her. come on guys. keep it together now.

vicgent4u 51M
43 posts
2/11/2006 8:06 am

i'm a great kisser and i've got the lips to prove it!! i've never been told otherwise nor been given 'advice' in this department. i have been with a few women whose kissing style doesn;t match very well with me but not said anything. i've come to realize that if there isn't a connection at the lip level, there probably won't be one at any other level (physically, anyway) either.

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