There is more to me than my sexuality!!  

VanillaKisses243 43F
170 posts
3/30/2006 8:20 am

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3/31/2006 6:28 pm

There is more to me than my sexuality!!

For some of you men y'all seem to think that just because I am on a sex site and have some X-rated pictures that means there is nothing between my ears and that I am all about sex. Let's get something understood...THERE IS MORE TO ME THAN MY SEXUALITY!!

I am very comfortable with who I am. I don't try to hide behind pretenses and I don't shy away from my sexuality. I am comfortable talking about sex, my experiences, my likes, my dislikes. I am pretty comfortable with showing myself as well. I have somewhat of a vouyeuristic nature and also am somewhat of an exhibitionist.

Despite the comfort level I have with myself and sex does not mean that there is nothing else to me though. Some of you on here get it twisted and think all I want is to fuck. Don't get it wrong, I love sex and am looking for someone that is as sexual as myself. However, I am also looking for alot more than that. I want someone that I can talk to...someone that understands me. I want someone that appreciates a sarcastic sense of humor and knows how to laugh. I want someone that realizes beauty is fading and that a good personality is everlasting. I want someone that has a job, has a car, has a brain, doesn't have a lot of kids (that means exes), and doesn't need a woman but wants one. Because, I don't need a man...I want one. I want someone that has something going for himself besides the size of his dick. I want someone that is going to be there for the long haul not just one night of great sex. I want someone to wake up too and to fall asleep with.

It doesn't matter how well you can fuck me, how long you can last, or how big your dick is if you can't be a man too. I have someone I can fuck for casual sex if I choose to. He is great in bed, has the right size dick, and we get along well. He just is not ready for a relationship. So we have a mutual understanding. I don't need another one of him.

I stay on AdultFriendFinder because I am looking for someone that truly enjoys sex, isn't afraid to push limits, and is comfortable with the openness I have with my sexuality. Not all men outside of here are as free spirited with sex as the men on here. But...I am also looking for someone that has the other qualities listed.

In otherwords...I need the complete package. If you aren't and can't be a real ass man in the streets then I don't care how big a freak you are in the sheets.

I have a lot to offer any man that wants to step up to the plate...and I am ready to make that commitment that I have stayed away from for all these years. I want a fine ass, real ass, smart ass, sexy ass man to call my own and in return he will get someone with intelligience, wit, charm, personality, decent looks, integrity, honesty, faithfulness, loyalty, generosity, and a sex drive that is out of this world.

Hope I cleared some misunderstandings up. my faithful followers...thanks for the emails, the encouragement, the praise, and the support. I like knowing you enjoy what I write. Don't just read the blogs though and then email me...feel free to write your responses here unless you don't want others to see what you have to say.

Until another day remember...wherever you are, we are sleeping under the same moon and stars.

marcusgerald 43M

3/30/2006 6:03 pm

I see no need to question your sexually abilites. It seems someone has you aggravated. I mean I really don't know how to find a match on here. The women have more men to choose from. I can imagine you have a lot to offer. All I can say is keep shopping you should find your match.

rm_biggurl4me 46M

3/31/2006 3:09 pm

i agree with every word you say although i can't seem to met a woman who feels the same as you, i'm a breastman cause that is what i want but not just for a night forever that's what i want when i come home from work, however, true beauty will never fade cause it comes from with, i'm not a shallow man i like substance who is very intimate and a good conversation is a must!

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