Is it possible?  

VanillaKisses243 43F
170 posts
3/27/2006 8:21 am

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3/31/2006 6:40 am

Is it possible?


Since I joined this site in February, I have been contacted by several types of men. Some have only been interested in seeing more pictures of me, which is fine. At least they are honest about what they want. Some have been very straight forward about wanting to fuck me. I like the bluntness of these people. Some have said they want to have a real relationship with me...which is what I would ultimately like. Some men live close by, some live far away. Some are white, some are black. Most are straight, had a few bi's, and even a gay man thrown in for good measure saying he thinks I could make him straight. NO THANK YOU! Some have had very interesting (to put it mildly) propositions. Some have offered the world to me on a silver platter (like I believe that though).

What I wonder is if it is possible to find a real man on here that is looking for a real relationship? One that is not based on lies, pretenses, or any form of falsehoods. A relationship that is formed on the foundation of true emotions, great conversation, compatibility, humor, and of course good sex. I add the sex part b/c, well, let's face it...we are on a sex site. Sex is obviously important to us. However, it is not the main thing I am looking for. It is something that is essential but not first and foremost on my criteria for the ideal man. I want a man that compliments me in everyway--mentally, spiritually, and physically. I don't just want a man with a big dick and/or a great tongue.

On a site such as AdultFriendFinder, do these type of men exist? And, if they do, where the hell are they? I found a great guy...but he is in New Jersey. I live in Texas. Is it possible that this could work? Or am I naive to believe in him. He has given me no reason not to trust him but damn that is a long distance to try to cover. I met another really nice guy from North Texas...I live in South Texas. He could give me the world he says, but there are little things that make me go hmmmmmmmmm. When there is soooo much distance between two people is it possible for things to work or does the distance play tricks with your head making you walk away from really great men?

Is it possible to find a great man from AdultFriendFinder and to be able to trust him when he lives sooo far away? Has anyone actually met someone on here that they maintained a true relationship with...or is this site really only about the fucking?

marcusgerald 43M

3/27/2006 9:31 am

I would like to comment but this seems like a female point of view subject. I mean it sounds like say whatever works type of thing. I've been contacted by every woman outside of Dallas. I'm starting to wonder if I should move. I'll say this, what will happen two years later if ya get with one of these heads? Will the feeling of give you the world be there? You know not all of us come without hang ups. It's a lot to consider. I met a few women on here and I didn't enjoy it too much. Some of the women try to treat my like a blowup doll. Ya can't pull me out the closet when you're ready. I heard from other women there are thousands of men on this site. Ya might find something. I know one thing it'll take one hell of a woman to separate me from my guitar.


Assertiveguy3 44M

3/28/2006 7:39 pm

I think it is possible to find the person here. However, keep in mind this is a sexual site, so most people will have that in mind first. On the other hand, the world wide web has permitted us to shiorten the distance between places, if you find someone who is a great catch and lives far, go for it, you have nothing to lose.


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