Cock Pics  

U4D2ofUS 52M/43F
20 posts
3/29/2005 9:58 pm

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Cock Pics


Hello everyone,

Maybe the guys out there can help me out. What's with all the cock pics, I know almost all men have something below the belt. So is it you have no confidence in your looks or personality? I can understand why people don't post their faces like me, but why the close up on your crotch?
Do you understand most women get offended with cock pics guys? This is why we only date women guys can sometimes be single minded at times. Thinking only with the little head, and sometimes that's OK too. but remember a time and a place for everything.....

Marina & Tony

vengeur 41M
836 posts
3/29/2005 11:29 pm

So would you say that pussy shots are a problem too? How about ass or tit shots?

My profile has three face pics and two cock pics. For discretionary reasons, I prefer to not have my face pic as my main profile pic. My face pics can be viewed by those whom are paid members on this site. I also always send a face pic when I contact anybody initially.

This site is overtly and graphically sexual. Just look at a few profiles if you do not agree with me. My well hung cock is something that many people take interest in apparently, because I get multiple profile views every single day from site members all over this country and even the world, and plenty of messages and network invites too.

I even have a pic of my cock sprawled out over my keyboard. This shows perspective of how thick it is. It completely blocks out a column of keys, three across. I use pics like these instead of just talking about how hung I am like I see some other men doing on this site.

To me, a guy who only has a face pic on his profile but claims to be really hung is just a waste of everybody's time. Put up or shut up is the way it ought to be, and that's why cock pics are important.

I was told by women who are in the swinger lifestyle a long time ago that single men are not going to get far unless they are well hung, and this site is supposedly for lifestyle couples and singles, right?


Apolybear 54M

3/30/2005 12:59 am

I see both sides. Most women are turned off by crotch shots. However, there are couples and single ladies in the swinging community who will only consider well endowed single men for casual sex. It depends on who you're trying to attract.


U4D2ofUS 52M/43F
13 posts
3/31/2005 9:24 pm

I feel just as strongly about pictures of pussies and tit shots. Well are all here becuse we are all sexual beings, but I would think the there is a lot more to attraction than a stiff dick. You could have the BIGGEST COCK in the word, but it dosen't make you attractive if your just as big a shmuck as your member. For the most part as a woman the attraction is mental at first. If I think your a jerk your not going to get anywhere close to my crotch. Cock size is really not an issue for most women, some think its great till they get a really big one and wonder why its so uncomfortable having sex with a guy who is well hung.
We have been to many swinger parties and some nudist facilities, and for the most part women just wanna giggle at a large cock, but would never want it in them.
Big Cocks are like really huge breast (larger than lets say f=F or FF), its an odditie, like a side show. If your getting lots of views and invites it could be to see something weird too, maybe not, but think about it
I just think cock pics (or pussy and tit pics too) are just a sign of a lack of personality and your proving it for me that is, but i'm sure there are other who would dissagree with me too.
But thinks for your opinion and posting


vengeur 41M
836 posts
4/2/2005 4:30 am

You have got to be kidding me. There are tons of people on this site who would disagree with you. You should try looking at other some other profiles before you make such sweeping statements about what women on this site want.

First, how do you explain the thousands of womens' and couples' profiles on this site which state explicitly that they are seeking well hung men? Currently, there are 22 active interest groups on this site under the topic "Well-Endowed" also, and 28 under the topic "Breast Fetish", each comprised of thousands of participants.

I view tons of womens' and couples' profiles on this site also, and I don't recall ever seeing one which sought just guys with small cocks. There are some profiles which will indicate that size doesn't matter, but on this site, the only size requirements I ever see are ones which state a minimum of a certain number of inches or above, not below.

If the women on this site were so concerned about mental attraction first and foremost, why do so many of them state they will not reply to messages without a pic? Of course mental attraction counts too, but a profile on this site can do little to accomplish that. That's what has to be done in person, something that the internet cannot replicate. Besides, how can any type of pic of a guy prove he's got a great personality? Sure, he could be attractive, well-built, and have a great smile, but still turn out to be a jerk when you meet him in person, right?


U4D2ofUS 52M/43F
13 posts
4/3/2005 9:39 pm

Venbeur,

Don't take it personal its an observation and everyone is entitled to an opinion. Your is that your cock is great and i'm happy for you, but the women we have talked to and encountered have said cock pics are STUPID and RUDE, this is what I have encountered at swinger parties I have attended and chatting with other women.
Now there is a select group that is into large cocks, I will agree, but not the norm.
Also, some women have proven to be attention whores on this site, writing the most selactious stuff to get attention like "I'm looking for a man with a 12" cock or better" to get you chatting or at least interested.
you can't tell me you haven't run into many of these either?


vengeur 41M
836 posts
4/5/2005 10:59 am

I sure hope I never end up at any swinger parties like the ones you've been to, where my cock becomes a liability instead of an asset likes it's always been before. I guess my stupid and rude cock pics have been kindly overlooked by all of the women and couples I've met through this site over the past couple of years, too.

How long have you been in the swinger lifestyle? I first got into the swinger scene back in the 90’s, long before this site even became as popular as it is today. Personal ads were placed in what were called "swinger contact magazines" back then, and they still are today. These magazines tend to be sold only in adult book stores, because of their graphic sexual content, of course.

Anyway, I did not see any women whatsoever complain about getting cock pics in these magazine ads like I do now on this site. This is how I know that this site has a lot of people on it now who are not real swingers or even on the same page as real swingers. Women and couples who were in the contact magazines always required seeing pics of a guy's body, face, and cock as a way of making sure that they wanted to really meet him. They would've surely risked wasting their time if they had had no such requirements. So when a woman states in her profile that she wants a cock x inches long or more, and a pic to prove it, she's not an "attention whore". She really means it, is serious about what she wants, and the correct term for her would be "size queen".

AdultFriendFinder is supposed to be for swingers, and real swingers don't whine about seeing pics of other people's genitalia or judge people who wish to express themselves in such a fashion. That's what many people would consider to be "open-minded".


U4D2ofUS 52M/43F
13 posts
4/6/2005 10:00 pm

Vengeur,

For an open minded person you expect all people to have the same point of view as you, and that is narrow minded in its self.

First off I don't think you would ever end up at the type of parties we go to, they are couples and females guest only (I don't know if you have a regular partner)which would let single men out.

SECONDLY, LIKE I SAID, it's only my opinion. I am intitled to an opinion on my own blog right?

Third, this is the reason we don't chat, IM, or party with single men, it seems (there again my opinion)like your almost fanatical about your cock being the best.
I'm sure there are some women who love that kinda stuff, but there are many I'm sure who don't too, diffrent strokes for diffrent folks.

Once again thanks for your opinion and I'm glad you voiced it even though we will never agree.


vengeur 41M
836 posts
4/7/2005 3:20 pm

Surely you are entitled to your own opinion regarding cock pics, cock size, single men, and whatever else on your own blog.

What I found dubious is when you initially opined, "most women get offended with cock pics". Perhaps that's how you feel, and all of your other women friends too, but on this site, and in this lifestyle for that matter, I have found those in your camp to be in the minority. Thank goodness for that!

While there over 20 discussion groups on this site dedicated to "Well-Endowed", with thousands of collective participants, I really doubt that we are going to see a "Cock pics are stupid and rude" group any time soon. Unless you start one, that is. Then I guess all of those whom agree with you will then join up.


BiSussi 56F  
142 posts
6/3/2007 1:04 pm

Why not a cock pic? I love to see what is waiting for me. Having a nice one can make the difference between moving on and giving it a night. Most of the time, size does make up for some ....
Don't be so hard on the boys. Please, just for me.


I love pussies and adore nice dicks


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