My Personal Website- NOT soliciting a pay-porn site  

TwoForToys 47M/43F
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1/9/2006 4:20 am

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My Personal Website- NOT soliciting a pay-porn site


First of all, before I further discuss this, I would like to make one thing perfectly clear. My purpose for being on AdultFriendFinder is NOT to solicit members for a pay-porn website, it is to meet like minded individuals. If you do not want to read any information about my website, simply skip this post. No member on the AdultFriendFinder website will EVER be solicited to join either my website or any other site, by either myself or Marc. I will NOT disclose the URL in this posting, just the existance and purpose of the website.

It is NOT a pay-porn for the purpose of making money website, it is a personal and non-public website. There is no "join" option anywhere on the site, you must be manually entered as a member by one of us to be able to gain access in any way. We are not trying to solicit you as a member. The only purpose for discussing it here at all is simply that it is very much a part of our sexual lives and interests, and people might be interested in the fact that we are the type of people that intend to operate our own personal site.

Now that that is out of the way, we decided some time ago to start the website. So far it is not much of a going concern, as we have had limited time and money to spend creating it since it is not a money making site, but we are getting going on it fairly quickly now and I am getting very excited about it. I have always been dissapointed in many of the resources available to people with alternative lifestyles. I wanted to create something that was available for me to use that went way beyond what is available for me out there now, and do so without spending a gob of money every month to do it.

So many people in the swinging and other alternative lifestyles love to watch and be watched, to see and be seen; but it is so difficult to do so without worry in today's society. Many people on here would love to be able to post their nastiest pics/videos and do not do so out of fear that their boss, child, neighbor or friend will see it while casually browsing; or that the content will be sold or distributed in some way. I know that I myself have had some of those concerns. While this (AdultFriendFinder) is a wonderful website, I would feel funny about posting my hardcore content on here for John Q Public to view or use at their whim.

So I started thinking....

What if I had my own website? What if I could build something that my friends and I could post things on where we did NOT have to worry about who was viewing it? A website that did not mass advertise or solicit members, was not accessable to the general public, and was by invitation and referral only? One intended for and used only by people with lifestyles like our own? So we decided to build one!

So far, we are still designing most of the pages and features and getting set up to operate. We have a small membership base of personal friends and they have been very helpful to us by giving feedback about the site. Some of them have decided they also want to post their own content, which is exciting. We have also purchased some brokered content for a little variety as far as eye candy goes, and have a lot more to get posted as soon as we can get it all stamped.

But my main interest is in being able to post my own content. I LOVE to be filmed and photographed. I have tons of pictures of myself, and want to have some new ones taken as soon as possible. We are in the process of looking for a professional photographer in our local area to get a better quality of picture. Right now we have webcam set up and running, but we hope to have more options available later. The quality of webcam is just not very good. I would love to be able to post those types of photos and videos where only the people I was comfortable with viewing it could see it.... To be able to allow my friends/lovers/other Nasca members to view my pictures or watch what I am doing live and on true video while I masterbate or while Marc and I get kinky...

A few days ago, Marc surprised me with the most wonderful gift. He brought home four high definition video cameras! We are very excited about this, and are planning on mounting them in our bedroom very soon. We will still need to obtain some additional VCR's and a four-way feed, but the biggest obstacle (getting the cameras themselves) is out of the way now. We are really looking forward to being able to do multiple angle true video live broadcast, and of course we will also tape and upload it so it will be able to be viewed later also.

We have also been busy with installing mirrors in our bedroom, which has added some recent excitement to our love life. Lately we have been like two kids in a candy store (or maybe two pervs in an adult toystore would be more accurate)lol.

Speaking of toys.....Another reason I think the site is great is that it is registered as a business and has a tax-id number, so we are eligible to buy from a wholesale toy distributor. We have a toystore now, but I am not pleased with it. The selection sucks and the prices we are getting aren't that much lower than at retail, but I have found a few other places that seem to have much better pricing and selection. We just have to choose which one we are going to switch to, and we will be able to buy toys MUCH cheaper than what they cost at any store, which I think is fabulous! Once we get that all ironed out, I am hoping to add lingerie. I just buy WAY too much lingerie and toys to be happy paying retail. So hopefully we will be able to expand our personal collection at reasonable prices soon.... I have no doubt I will be my own best toystore customer!

And as far as the tax ID number goes, lol (this is the BEST part), so far we haven't made a single wooden nickel, so we won't have to pay any taxes. The upside is that by declaring it as an adult broadcasting business, we can call most of the toys, equipment and lingerie business expenses and write them all off as a loss, since we are running the business in the red! So, for the most part, whatever we spend, we can just reduce out of our taxable income from our regular jobs. Talk about a business disaster; I am sure the IRS will love us for it. I will have to make sure I have a special orgasm just for them!

The costs of starting up aren't cheap, but they aren't as high as I thought they would be, either. The tax deduction is awesome, and once all the equipment is purchased, there really is not much of an ongoing expense to worry about.

Anyway, we are having a ball with it, and most people I have talked to about it in any detail or who have checked the site out for themselves love the idea. Just thought it was an idea others might be interested in as well

Stacy

LovesORALsoMUCH 59M

1/9/2006 10:17 am

Stacy,
This is a GREAT idea and I applaud you and Marc for making the investment, taking the time, and building such a wonderful resource, communication vehicle, personal 'toy', and business venture!
I am only just beginning to communicate with the two of you, and already I am greatly looking forward to telling you more about me and getting to know the two of you better! I too am very interested in videotaping and photography, in a healthy and respectful swinging lifestyle, and to growing true friendships through these connections.
It will be great to watch this website develop and to see the wonderful connections you make & build as a result. Count me in!
Jim


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