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BDSM Revisited (update)
BDSM Revisited (update)
As promised I decided follow up on the BDSM post.
The point of this post is the four emails I received from folks in my area who read my
last blog post on the topic and decided to email me.
This was an unexpected side effect of that post, I wasn’t expecting it.
Not entirely unwelcome just unexpected. For privacy and decency reasons I won’t name
Two of the emails were from women two were from couples.
All of them had a similar tone and the same dominant air about them.
To be totally honest if I didn’t realize they were from people into BDSM I’d be
incensed about it.
The woman were hmm shall we say WAY more than I think I could ever handle.
This is just a FEW excerpts from their letters and just the keywords that caught me
You will learn to lick my boots......
You will answer Yes Mistress or you’ll be spanked
You will Obey me totally or you will be spanked
You will please me if I wish it and expect nothing in return unless I decide to give it to
you as a reward.
And the best one I saw....I am going to make you my (sissy bitch) and your going to love
it slave. It ended with what do you think of that sissy bitch?
Ok WTF is up with sissy bitch??????
If a guy ever said something like that to me it would start a brawl bigger than world war 3.
But I think its even worst when a woman says something like that to man....
I mean it strikes on a primal level and really frosts my ass. Who the f**K is calling
me a sissy bitch??? The freaking nerve.
I took it in context of building dominance but still it annoyed me.
The two couples that contacted me were almost identical in what they said.....
The basic context of their letters were....
The Dom in both cases were males the subs the female of the couple...No clue if they are a married couple in this case. But they both said so your looking to experience being a sub
to a female. Well here it is my sub has been very good and she deserves a reward so
I have decided to allow her to have her own sub and you look like the perfect candidate.
She doesn’t have much experience being a Dom so you will learn to be sub while she learns
to be your Dom. You will both serve me however.
Ok this is where they lost me...a sub of a sub??? Ummmm is there such a thing or are they
making this stuff up as they go along? Isn’t being submissive the whole point of being sub?
So why does she want a sub under her? What do you call that anyway? Minisub?
It sounds to me like both guys are at least Bi and just looking to add a male slave to the list.
Or did I misunderstand? Hmm no where in my profile does it say I’m Bi and I sure as hell
am not switching it now. I’m not a pole swinger. No I’m not a homophobia nut but I don’t have an urge to choke a chicken.
Is BDSM always sexual? Or did I just not understand what they meant?
The subs sub to serve one Dom and serve both?
Bottom line I don’t really think I know as much about BDSM as I thought I did
And well after being called Sissy Bitch by a woman I don’t think I could ever be
a submissive in any case. Still open minded about those who do BDSM but I don’t
think its for me unless there is a much tamer and toned down on the insults version.
I am always looking to learn something new but DAMN.
What is anyone else's take on this?
BTW don't ask me whats up with the picture haha I'm clueless I found it on BDSM cafe.
5/31/2006 10:54 pm
Some people are into strange things,,I'm into tryin new things,,, but holy fuck some people go to extremes...|
6/1/2006 6:25 pm
Actually, if you google it you can find all this out. There is an Alpha sub that lords over all the other subs.|