Screwing a Friendship  

TurnLock 59M
454 posts
6/20/2006 5:35 pm

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9/1/2006 6:18 pm

Screwing a Friendship

Opportunities for sex creates new and complex situations to deal with. The best way to screw up a friendship is to have sex. My mind is so focused on sex, I have to remind myself of this constantly. I’m starting a new friendship in which I have always had intense sexual desires. If I act on my desires I receive physical gratification, but I chance ruining the friendship. I love sex and I sure everyone here feels the same, but I value friendship above sex. A friend I can talk to and enjoy for years and years. A former lover tends to stay in the past a done thing.

I hate the moral conflict this present. Even as grown A adults our choices aren’t always wise or the best. A fantasy is good in that it feeds the possibilities of the impossible. What happens there is no harm no foul. Bring it to life and there can be harm there can be foul. Our emotional states are tender we can easily break. We all don’t have the same perceptions of love. Here are three words relating to the same event: sex, fucking and lovemaking. I was challenged on my use of the word sex and not lovemaking.

Sex is when two people are having intercourse for fun or because they enjoy each others company. Lovemaking involves more emotional connection and the sex here is to enjoy and pleasure the object of affection. Strong emotional ties exist here. Fucking just requires a dick and a pussy. Attraction is optional. As much as I like her lovemaking is something you get to eventually. It takes time for the emotions to get here.

So as I prepare for the high road and recondition my thinking. When I see your breast I will merely think good thought. When you bend over to pick up that $10 that I accidentally dropped, I will think good thoughts. When you are touching my legs during the movie and my pup tent rises, I will think good thoughts. Even if you were in front of me naked, I would think really good thoughts. Even if I was as hard as calculus I would put our friendship first. We could hold hands, kiss, touch some kind of physical attention short of sex.

JuicyBBW1001 54F

6/20/2006 8:26 pm

Hmmm interesting. I had a friend whom I had sex with and the dynamics of that friendship changed significantly but I still love him as a friend and would have sex with him again but we are both not suited for one another in a romantic sort of way. So good luck with your dilemma.


TurnLock replies on 6/20/2006 9:09 pm:
That's good to hear. They usually turn bad when it has to end.

Lyoness 43F
689 posts
6/21/2006 3:53 am

why do you think the frienship woudl not last? i mean if you are friends than you can be honest withthe persona nd put it all out there. you can communicate and not make mistakes. or maybe i am wrong on that. my normal rule with guy friends (heck female friends too), i dont fuck friends.

TurnLock replies on 6/21/2006 3:54 pm:
That's it our friendship is over.

SecretEarNoTears 47F  
766 posts
6/24/2006 1:44 am

What happened to friends & lovers?

amoldenough 69F
16436 posts
9/1/2006 11:44 am

Did you ever come to the conclusion that you might not think of sex all the time if you didn't watch porn daily? Just a thought.

"Don't cry because it's over; smile because it happened."

TurnLock replies on 9/1/2006 6:17 pm:
As long as I not getting any, porn or no porn, sex will always be in my forethoughts.

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