How Do Married Men Do It?  

TurnLock 59M
454 posts
8/28/2006 6:02 pm

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How Do Married Men Do It?

My future-ex knows what I’m doing so I don’t have to devise plans to sneak out and generate cover stories about where I was or who I was with. My kids on the other hand require a cover story. They ask ”its 10pm where are you going? Why does dad need to stay out this time of night?” It not really that deep, I don’t have many opportunities to sneak around and get some, but they did question me on a few occasions.

I don’t see how other married men can pull this off. How they can find the time to meet up with any women is amazing to me. How can one slip into having an affair without the wife or children noticing? The only way I can see pulling it off would be to suddenly develop a lot of hobbies. I’m bowling twice a week. I’m doing volunteer work for the seniors. I got a poker night with the boy’s. I would have to find something to do every day so that my extra activities would not be discovered. There is no other way to pull it off, unless I pretend to go to work and don’t.

Next issue is when I find the time to get together. I’m gone from 6am to 7pm and expected home around 7pm. I got a bedtime that should be 10pm but I’m up to 11pm on some nights. If I stay out till 12pm, I still got a solid 4:20am wakeup, I could sleep late to 5am providing I got myself prepped for the next day. I could do it, but I’m going to be tired and wanting to sleep more at work than normal. That’s why for me Friday and Saturday night are the nights I have available to go play.

With the family leaving I will have more flexibility to get around, but it will be at the expense of eating, cleaning and prepping clothes for work. I’m canceling my cable won’t have much use for it except for the weekends. It’s of no use until 24 or The Unit returns, other than that I could miss TV and renew my Starz PC subscription. I’m going to be cleaning house on my various subscriptions, they cost and I’m not getting the advantage of all of them anyway.

As I prepare for my solo existence, I’m stocking up on cereal and my salad fixing and laundry soap. The things I’m going to need the most. Psyche myself up for house cleaning, something I haven’t had to do for years. At least I will know that it was I that made the mess this time.

rm_CuummDrop 48F
2591 posts
8/28/2006 7:04 pm

How they do it?.... "Honey, I'll be a few minutes late home from work"... "Oh, I took one of the guys out for lunch, that's why the credit card bill is a lil higher this month"

Trust me, they are VERY clever... Then you have those,, girls,, that think on the other side of the spectrum... Give them the excuse to use,, because it's logical to the female side of the world...

Never give off any clue's as too why all of a sudden he's shaving, just do it, and "Honey, I've got a surprise for you"...

That's how...

Now won't last forever, so use it wisely~c

abitcrazy4sex 44M
1335 posts
8/28/2006 7:08 pm

i doubt that any married man pulls it off easily . best thing to do is wait till its all over then relax and do it when you dont have to sneak around , its really so much better

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