decreased sex drive ???????  

Tryanything1ceXX 44M/39F
133 posts
6/21/2005 11:47 am

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decreased sex drive ???????

ok here it is does anyone else have the problem of there sex drive declining due to emotional responses..........

I miss a guy i am use to talking to..... I wonder sometimes if he misses me back...... but hey life will continue without him right..... I just hate to lose good friends due to misunderstanding.....and my hubby has been a real jack ass due to all the drama.....he tells me all the time that i let people shit on me more than i comment back is you no i always look for the best in people....and yes sometimes i do allow people too mistreat me i don't no why really but i do......... I would do anything for those few people that i call friends yet do i do to much for them? is that the problem.... i seee things in people, that is my qift i believe.... if i see pain, i try and help sooth it. if i see low self esteem, i try to build it. If i see a person is quiet, i try to give them a voice. this is what i do... i don't mean to step on toes or hurt peoples feeling.... i just feel so deeply in all aspects of life that it is hard to pull back until my task is fulfilled... I have failed though with this one person....miserablely i must admit....and i don't know how to fix it I have humbled myself, asked for forgiveness continued to take it and take it until i blew up... Now i fear that the damage is unrepairable with these friends..... I do hope not though, I am not a religious person by no means but i do say prayers to whom ever is up or out there be it mantle god booda,zuse whom ever, i hope they hear me and help me threw this failure in life..... I wish i could just make it clear that i mean no harm to her or her family.... i charish them like i charish all my friends........ so all you bloggers out there do me this favor say a small prayer for me to whom ever it is you pray that she will forgive my faults and see i am not here to harm her.......

so that is why i quess my drive is down which is unusual for me due to the fact i am a nympho heheheh so hopefully this will all pass and i will make up for lost time with my dear deprived hubby hehehhehe..........

thanks all
kisses melissa

jimxxx1971 47M

6/21/2005 12:24 pm

it's definitely more difficult to get in the mood if you are worried or depressed or think that your significant other is a raging cockass. (even if it is just for the moment) it will pass, and you will become a nymphette again... it's nature's way.

as for whomever it is you're speaking about... not sure what there is to say. not everyone wants or accepts help, and if that is the case, there is not much you can do about it, despite how frustrating that is as a person that is concerned about them. it sounds to me like you've done what you can, so you should feel free to move on. though i realize you don't really want to.

hope you start feeling better soon.

rm_reisender04 53M

6/21/2005 11:55 pm

You sound like a kind and noble soul. Prayers dispatched, good luck

tattooedartist 44M

6/22/2005 7:33 am

A thousand shades of color, a thousand shades of you
A thousand midnight operas, as you lay there two by two
A thousand seasons coming, for the banter and the pain
but if someone loses a strand of you, they will never be whole again.

Dont worry about it sweetheart....time heals all things. Prayers and luck aside....follow your heart and you will never go wrong!!

IN the past we've had a light which has flickered...
IN the present we have a light which will flame....
IN the future may we have a light that is a guide for all the world to see.

- Sir Winston Churchill

rm_4nik8_4u 61M
2501 posts
6/22/2005 10:21 am

It's wonderful to look for and see the good in people. You don't need to give that up. I know people that lie and can't be trusted and I can get along fine with them because I KNOW what kind of people they are and I won't put myself in a position where they can take advantage of me or hurt me. Once they know this they are less likely to try to use me because I know how they are. So don't give up looking for the good in people, just know that some of them will take advantage of you if they can. Put those in a place in your mind and KNOW that you have to be cautious around them.

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