Lack of respect?  

TrueTxGtlman 53M
111 posts
6/4/2006 5:38 pm

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6/7/2006 7:07 am

Lack of respect?

I had lost my YIM handle I had for over 8 years a few months ago and finally got it back. I noticed a couple of people had requested to add me to their messenger. I added them and then started to notice that when a ex lady friend of mine would login one of the new id's logged in also and log out when she did. I know now she is using this to catch me at something. Being she is an ex I am not so worried.

My questions to you is:

1.Do you do this sort of practice and if so how do you justify it to yourself.

2.Have you had this done to you and how did it make you feel?

3.Would you do this if you felt you needed to find the trust level of your online lover?

JuicyBBW1001 54F

6/4/2006 6:32 pm

I don't care for those who send an instant message without first sending an introductory email or asking for a private chat in the chatroom. It is my privacy people invade when they do that.


TrueTxGtlman replies on 6/4/2006 7:13 pm:
Most don't see you having privacy when you are online. Most think you are looking for action from anyone and everyone. I just don't like the games and I treat others how I want to be treated....


alissa2001 47F

6/5/2006 2:14 pm

I see privacey online...If we are looking on AdultFriendFinder, arent we lookeing for action? Tell her how you feel about her games and that you dont want part of games being played buy her..

I dont know if it has been done to me..I dont add names to my list withougt haveing emailed somehowe first..

I wouldnt do it..too much to keep up with 4 kids and someone who used to be ex..two many ex's two..

TrueTxGtlman replies on 6/5/2006 8:13 pm:
She was told and it was taken care of, just checking around how others handle things and if others actual justify doing the sneaky business...

twirly_girl 47F

6/5/2006 8:33 pm

I don't add people who don't tell me who they are.
I had one the other day and denied it. Some girl
that I don't know. LOL

I wouldn't do it. Why bother?
Seems silly to me.


TrueTxGtlman replies on 6/7/2006 7:07 am:
I agree why bother

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