JUST CURIOUS ?? DO FAT WOMEN NEED LOVE TOO  

TravelinsAuntPat 50F
237 posts
6/10/2006 12:48 am

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JUST CURIOUS ?? DO FAT WOMEN NEED LOVE TOO

I AM JUST CURIOUS DO FAT WOMEN REALLY NEED LOVE TOO. DO THEY RATE UP THERE WITH MEN ON THE SCALE (PARDON THE PUN) OF PEOPLE WHO NEED LOVE AND SEX AND SATISFACTION. I HAVE BEEN WATCHING IN PUBLIC THE REACTION OF OTHERS WHEN AN OVERWEIGHT WOMEN IS IN THE VACINITY AND I AM HERE TO SAY PEOPLE SHOULD BE ASHAMED OF THEMSELVES.

JUST WONDERING ARE THERE MEN OUT THERE THAT LOVE FAT CHICKS TOO?

WHAT IS THE RULE FOR BEING A FAT CHICK AND GETTING A MAN. I AM SURE SOMEONE WILL SAY A BATH AND DEODRANT IS KEEN BUT I WANT THE REAL LOW DOWN ON WHAT A MAN LOOKS FOR WHEN SCOPING OUT A FAT CHICK.....



benibluetwo 47F

6/10/2006 1:25 pm

Well, I can't speak for the men but as a BBW I have absolutely no problems with getting partners. Some men don't like it but there are an awful lot of men out there who do. And I do not have body odor...suggesting its only fat people who do is a fallacy...I've found skinny people with worse B.O that big ones.

Sure I may hear comments from the peanut gallery but it's those same men who seek me out for night of passion claiming bigger women make better lovers. More to hold and lick and suck on they say. But singles only please.

I carry myself with pride (as we all should) and I love to dress up and show my cleavage. I am no less than anyone else and I love sex. Size isn't the issue it's the way it's perceived by society. Rail thin models are NOT the norm in society and sure I may be on the bigger side but I do get a lot of sex.

Hope that helps a bit.

XOXOXOXOXOX

benibluetwo

XOXOXOXOXOX


TravelinsAuntPat 50F

6/13/2006 2:26 am

PERHAPS I SHOULD GAIN WEIGHT THEN CAUSE I NEED SEX HUNY LOL


rcb4onlyu 67M

6/13/2006 5:24 am

Doesn't really matter fat or skinny, its not about the outside as much as it is on the inside. That's where it counts the most
Richie


TTigerAtty 62M

6/13/2006 6:13 am

I've never scoped out really skinny chicks or really fat chicks. I suppose my approach would be roughly the same with them as with medium sized chicks. Splash on a little Old Spice or Mennen Skin Bracer, put my shirt tail in, squirt a little sweet shot in my mouth, suck in my gut and walk up and say "Hi, my name is Tiger! Wanna prowl around with me?" That's the way I'd handle it, Anuntie Pat.


LadytoPleaseYou 64F
5447 posts
6/18/2006 9:14 pm

not trying to spare anyone's feelings there are you Pat? why wouldn't we need love and sex just as much as the next person, be they a skinny, just right, plump or fat chick.

PENIS CHARMING....where are you?


TravelinsAuntPat 50F

6/21/2006 12:16 am

dear lady:

as it stated in the blog i was angery at the way I had noticed fat people being treated in public.......


LadytoPleaseYou 64F
5447 posts
6/21/2006 10:09 am

yes you did Pat, but I think it was the overall tone of your post and the bath and deodorant remarks that touched a nerve with me.

PENIS CHARMING....where are you?


TravelinsAuntPat 50F

6/23/2006 12:47 am

yeah if you read what i said AGAIN I asked for the low down not the old bath and deodorant routine. I wanna know if these men who will have sex behind closed doors with a fat chick be man enough to be seen in public with them and be proud.
Or is he with her just a behind the closed doors to use the fat chick because she is MAYBE and I say MAYBE an easy target because of low self esteem. I JUST WANT MEN TO STOP AND THINK ABOUT HOW THIS EFFECTS WOMEN.....

Just curious you know..... Just wanted to hear some feedback from the men on this if they will be honest. Is it a closet romance or are they proud to be out in public too. Just noticing things out in public myself on how overweight people are treated and it is not nice. FAT PEOPLE HAVE FEELINGS TOO. So don't make more out of the bath and deodorant comment than was meant.


benibluetwo 47F

6/27/2006 2:07 pm

Well I took some offence to it too...but thats neither here nor there. The reality is half the men I have sex with I just have sex with and the others want to go out and be seen with me. Its actually more my choosing than theirs since I decide how I want the relationship to go.

Now I know it makes me sound slutty admitting to multiple partners but I am 36 and single. I have no intention of getting married and its all safe sex. I have fun and thats what its all about.

XOXOXOXOXOX

benibluetwo

XOXOXOXOXOX


TravelinsAuntPat 50F

7/3/2006 8:57 pm

    Quoting benibluetwo:
    Well I took some offence to it too...but thats neither here nor there. The reality is half the men I have sex with I just have sex with and the others want to go out and be seen with me. Its actually more my choosing than theirs since I decide how I want the relationship to go.

    Now I know it makes me sound slutty admitting to multiple partners but I am 36 and single. I have no intention of getting married and its all safe sex. I have fun and thats what its all about.
Well see then there ya go if your happy then who cares what everyone else thinks. It is shame most people spend their lives revolved around getting other peoples approvals and people pleasing not realizing that this is YOUR LIFE LIVE IT. Don't live YOUR life for someone ELSE.

HAPPY 4TH OF JULY.
AUNTIE PAT


Mermaidslut 49F

7/25/2006 7:44 am

Ever watch the movie Shallow Hal?

Peer pressure plays a lot into this, as men who are not perfect think they deserve playboy material and won't settle unless they get it.. because they are too immature to see beyond their own faults and settle for the best companion for who THEY are. if they do get playboy material, they don't know how to deal with it anyways so really it is just thay they are not ready for a mature relationship period because they have hang ups with themselves.

It stems from insecurity. It is not so much that they are with holding love from fat women, but rather themselves because they are so repressed by their ideas of what THEY must live up to... so they sit at home, alone, jacking off to porn instead because they think that is more "acceptable" based on all the mens magazines such as Maxim that instill this type of elitism into the immature.

Really sad, too bad Americans are not more like Italians or French men in this respect. A diet of pure eye candy can make your heart starve to death...


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