ToysR4Us2005 31M
5 posts
4/29/2006 1:35 pm

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6/8/2006 9:47 pm


Well, what I have observed recently is that having a picture definitely helps... and if you don't have on posted on your profile, at least sending one with an email get's a lot more response. I am finally getting to talk with some people from the site (does turning 21 really do that much?)... they used to just decline my message every time.

Something else that I have come to realize is that you don't really need to pay for the site but a month every 3 - 4 months. Reason being... well, you can contact everyone within that one month - if you get responses, awesome. If not, well - better luck in 3 months, no-one from this crowd was interested in you. Seems like people join in cycles?

rm_corezon 53F
3376 posts
4/29/2006 6:39 pm

People DO join in cycles...and yes, by all means send a picture even if their isn't one on your profile...and yes, age may be relative but I suspect it definitely helps to be the big 21...that way you're legal for everything everyone else is...

Most women would rather have a face pic from you to start off with if they have any intentions of meeting someone in real life. I wouldn't send the other unless she asks for it. I don't answer emails with nothing but a dick picture and I know alot of other women are the same way. I think most of us want to know a little more about you to like and have in common than you man, me woman. There's a whole lotta men on this site...what is there about you that I should go out with you? Even if all somebody wants is an NSA EVERYBODY claims they're good at it...talk don't mean a thing.

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