An introduction  

Totaltruth 41M
2 posts
10/2/2005 2:11 pm

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An introduction


Well I guess an introduction is in order...I am a 30 year old white male who is looking for....well you know, I'm not sure what it is I am looking for. Maybe I will figure it out...maybe I can learn from you..

I know the typical answer should be, "...a woman that will love me, and cherish me, blah blah blah." But it seems now a days that that sounds good on paper, but with no basis in reality unless someone yells "Cut!" at the end. I have wanted to be married since I was old enough to comprehend the concept. I have probably had the opportunity a time or two, but the whole "think for myself" thing has always gotten in the way. So therein lies my dilemma....I have loved before, but have always been held back by the fantasial belief that one day I will find my soulmate.

But, as I have said before, I tend to think outside the box, and have some "different" views on subjects that is normally accepted. Now I am not talking any crazy off the wall shit, but more of a free will kind of thing. One of those things happens to be sex and relationships, but you probably have guessed that one, being a male and on this site...lol.

Most men are perceived as being, 24/7 horny, mindless beasts that only are interested in getting off, and for the most part, its true. But I have reached a point in my life that its starting to not be all about me, and the desire to see my partner have a good time is becoming more and more of a priority. Some will say its growing up, and others will say I'm just trying to play the "good guy until I get laid" card...who knows...because I damn sure don't. But this is more for me than anyone, so I suppose like it or bite it...either way works. If I hapen to meet some like minded people from those that read this, then all the better, as a good friend is always a welcome asset.

But so far my only desire for an outcome from this is to meet some intelligent people that can discuss any and everything, and maybe even form a friendship that can lead to happiness....mental or physical, because we all need a little bit of both.

rainqueen04 55F
1340 posts
10/2/2005 9:05 pm

I like your introduction...greetings from a member that has been here for a year. *gives a hug and a kiss, shakes hands*. a friend in need is a friend indeed; and I have been short of friends for years. Not because I'm an ogre or anything, far from it. my perception is that i was in an abusive relationship that brought my self esteem to net zero and now that he is a thing of the past, i have brought my self esteem up full circle, unfortunately, not to the brimming success of having a huge group of friends. i would say, maybe two, and many more from meeting people in the various rooms here on this site. our connection isn't always about sex and getting what we want, but in finding others that are human beings that want to interact with other people, so I welcome you to a site that can be good or bad; sometimes not the greatest but worthy of building friendships, and having new adventures, and enjoying the journey along the way. ttyl.....RQ


Totaltruth 41M
2 posts
10/3/2005 7:09 am

Thanks for the welcome rain!! I am feeling pretty good about the whole blog thing actually, and you are right...its always worth building friendships. And hey, if you ever need anyone to just talk to about anything, I'll be here!!


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