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Almost two weeks
Almost two weeks
I signed on almost two weeks ago. The chat rooms are like trying to pull on to the freeway during rush hour from a dead stop. I have received a handful of emails in reply to the hundreds I have sent out. Many incude a remark like please email me at such and such, have some pictures I want to send.
Desperation? Curiosity? Whatever it was, it was a mistake. I see the same pictures coming up for many different profiles. I would say, if it seems too good to be true it usually is. There are some real people out there, I am sure of it. Everyone asking for honesty. I think that the anonymity of the site should only help people be honest, but I guess that's just the optomist in me.
I am a horny single guy, looking to meet some new "friends". I have always shunned the online method, so I thought I would give it a try. So far, it hasn't been worth the time. Where is the honesty and sincerity everyone is asking for?
1/22/2006 11:26 pm
I have to tell you that part of the problem is that your expectations might be a little unrealistic. |
1. You're sending out hundreds of emails. Are you really looking for someone compatible or are you just fishing for a bite?
2. The responses you're getting are the fake ads...typically, very young and EXTREMELY beautiful.
Not to say that there are no REAL young and beautiful women, but let's face it...do you really expect to find Anna Kournikova types lurking here? You said if it's too good to be true, it probably is and there is nothing more true in life than that statement.
Basically, if you're sending hundreds of emails, it's very likely you are not spending the time to read the profiles and are likely not writing fitting responses. Canned emails usually get deleted. That's just the plain truth. I'm not exactly the creme of the crop, but I get enough emails that I have to prioritize them. I will ONLY respond to an email that expresses a genuine interest in ME. I never respond to poorly written emails or canned emails (they're easy to spot). One liners that say, "U"..."I want to lick your clit"...such as one that I received just a little while ago...
That crap is in the trash bin already.
Women who display a picture are getting much more emails than I do. You've got alot of competition so make yourself stand out. Your handle already says you're a tongue pro so save the "licking the clit" stuff for the actual meeting. Show, don't tell.
Take a little more time. READ the profiles and send respectful and fitting emails and you WILL get some serious replies, cuz you DO look good so there's no problem there.
1/23/2006 12:22 am
As luck would have it, i did get a couple of replies shortly after posting this. I am thrilled that MzHunyHole and KittyKatt4U added a comment. Sweet!|
And thanks Kitty, your comments are very to the point, and I hope that more guys see them, and pay attention.
I have been taking the time to read the profiles, and I have been trying to tailor my messages. I am horny, and I do want to get laid, but I want to respect a potential partner, and I would not try to contact someone I was not seriously interested in learning more about.
I feel 100% better. I do feel foolish for taking the bait with the fembot adds.