Can standard members get a response ?  

TongueLoverMike 52M
13 posts
11/5/2005 6:35 pm

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8/5/2006 4:23 pm

Can standard members get a response ?


Women and couples view my profile but the ones I want to meet never get in touch. Do I really need to go silver or gold ? I wink at everyone I like, in the hope of a message back. Do any standard members receive messages in this way? Or am I going about it the wrong way? There are some sensational looking women in their 30s & 40s, it's so tantalising when they view me and wink at me, but I long for a message from them. Surely a few of you ladies can make the transition from tease to friend? from internet flirt to cocksucker? What do other standard members think?

rm_macwoni 31M
2 posts
11/5/2005 7:12 pm

I'm having the same problem,I don't think standard members can reply unless you actually buy points for it,which i think is retarded why should the gold and silver members have to buy points to get in contact with standard members when we already pay a shitload a month? I don't get it.


PailsDiverHonks 55F

11/5/2005 7:34 pm

Standard members can not send the initial email so yes if you want to make contact someone needs to be a paying member. Standard members do see the winks and can wink back if interested.


wnt2play75 41

11/5/2005 7:48 pm

we are having the same problem. and yes if we do manage to get answers from our winks that does make it easier. but should we really get into gold or silver if we do not see any results just being a standard member.


dranba 39F

11/5/2005 7:50 pm

The trouble here is that women are flooded with emails everyday, and speaking personally I often don't get the chance to look at who's winked at me.

I'm only a standard member and can contact most people on AdultFriendFinder. So, keep trying!


silkysmoothlegs3 105F

11/5/2005 8:22 pm

I am a standard member lads and ive no problem replying to messages or getting in contact with people..

Silky xx


rm_MarkNGeorgia 64M
91 posts
11/5/2005 8:50 pm

If you receive a message, you can respond. You just cannot initiate contact as a standard member.


goddessofbitches 41M/33F

11/5/2005 9:07 pm

What it all comes down to is the fact that yes...in some cases wink will get someone's attention. Maybe even adding them to your hotlist. But, if you are winking and hotlisting people who are standard members...you aren't going to get a response back unless that standard member has points they want to redeem.

You can redeem points collected here at AdultFriendFinder to contact others or you can wink to the silver and gold and hope that they like what they see in your profile and write.

I don't mean to be too blunt, but that's pretty much the way it works around here.

HUGS~~~MANDY goddessofbitches

Always The Bitch


goddessofbitches 41M/33F

11/5/2005 9:08 pm

Which by the way, if you are standard and someone writes to you, YOU CAN REPLY.....and it doesn't cost you anything. The only catch is that as a standard member, you can only reply to a select few a day.

HUGS~~~MANDY

Always The Bitch


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