Him or his sister?  

TickleMeBBW 36F
176 posts
3/26/2006 10:06 pm

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3/28/2006 11:48 pm

Him or his sister?

I’ve got this friend, we go out and have a ball, we stay in and crack each other up with laughter, truly one of my best mates at the moment. A few weeks ago he asked me to be his girlfriend. Trying to be as kind as I could I politely said no, that I didn’t want a relationship, that I was enjoying my time as a single girl, living life to it’s fullest. Which is all true, or was true. I’ve been spending a lot of time lately around couples and I feel i’m missing out on so much, I mean I know there’s downsides, but there’s upsides too. I’d love to come home from work with someone there to give me a kiss each day (dog licks don’t count!) or wake up next to the same face each morning.
Anyways, last week I met his sister and I’ve fallen for her in a big way, we got along so well when I first met her and have become closer since, going out for lunch and chatting on the phone. Yesterday she came over and sat me down, told me that I was gorgeous, entertaining and an amazing person (???) and would like to see what could happen between us. It blew me away as it was the last thing I was expecting and now I don’t know what to do.
I have a great friendship with this guy and can see us being mates for a long time, but I’ve got this connection with his sister and I find myself day dreaming and fantasising over her daily. I’m sure if I got together with his sister, this guy would be heartbroken.

What do I do?? Any advice would be fantastic

Mwah, Tickles

(Sorry if you've seen this multipe times, but trying to get as many opinions as I can)

imLadyBambi 58M/50F

3/26/2006 10:42 pm

I'm not sure if this is good advise but here's what I'd do...

1) Let the sister know that you want a relationship with her. At the same time, tell her that you want to let her brother know - just so he is not mislead about anything. (He has earned the right to be the first to know).

2)Inform the brother knowing that you will break his heart.

3)Enjoy your newfound romance and hope that someday, her brother will understand and respect your candor and honesty.

Lady Bambi

loadeddice05 44M

3/26/2006 10:42 pm

Decisions!! HUM! Maybe you need some distance from this guy!! Then start easing him into the idea of you and his sister? I mean he's gonna be hurt and he'll surely be around!! STEP CAREFULLY!!


AussieCuckold 53M/41F

3/27/2006 10:56 pm

I agree with BAMBI......you have to look after yourself spunky girl...... enjoy it.
Lotsa hugs n kisses till next time

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