When sex isn't enough  

The_Succubus 31F
135 posts
3/19/2006 12:42 am

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When sex isn't enough


This last week I realized how unfullfilling AdultFriendFinder really is. Sure, it is an easy way to get laid but what happens when that is not enough anymore? I have been having the craving for a normal relationship for a while now and I met a guy who just made those feelings stronger.

No, I am not in love or anything. After all, I am pretty sure he mentioned he had a girlfriend the first time we met. But I do know he likes me. How? The sexual teasing is obvious. The comments he makes. Or the way he stroked my face some days ago.

I feel like I'm in High School again and you are probably wondering why that is a good thing. I saw the beauty of taking things turtle-like slowly, how it builds up excitement. Even though I know nothing will probably ever happen, I like the idea of there being someone who wants me and does not let the opportunity go by to touch me and be close to me, no matter how inappropriate it might look.

I am not sure if I am ready to turn off my profile but I will be even more strict. I don't want to just get laid, I need something more and that is something that cannot be found here. I did the mistake once and I promised myself never to make it again. After all, I will never be able to take seriously a guy I met from a site like AdultFriendFinder.

hockeystick14 34M

3/19/2006 2:42 am

I'm not sure if that something cannot be found here, but it is much harder to find here. I think the difference with this site is guys think, When am I going to get to fuck this girl, whereas elsewhere, guys say, I wonder if I'm going to get to fuck this girl. I'm talking in general here again, not all guys are thinking that all the time, but in terms of meeting women a lot of guys are on that wave lenght, especially around our age.

I'm sure that you could find a guy on here that is interested in the same things that you are, it will just take some looking.


massagekoning 44M

3/19/2006 2:23 pm

why do you keep implicating that every guy on this site is a freak or can't be taken seriously?
isn't that sort of insulting to all the guys that post reactions to your blog also.

besides, you are on this site as well aren't you?
so what does that make you?

i met a girl on here some time ago and we became good friends and i'm glad for that. so please don't be so judgemental of all the people here although i sure believe some people are fucked up.... just try to not let them influence you too much.


The_Succubus 31F

3/19/2006 11:51 pm

massagekoning: I have met a lot of guys through this site and guess what: all of them were weird. Even the ones who appeared to be normal at first. Of course I know not all of them are like that but it is only natural to be judgemental when you have only had bad experiences. If I insult someone, then that's too bad, but I am just expressing my opinion. As for me being on this site, well I'm a girl, that is a big difference. And the other gals here sound pretty cool . I read blogs of some and I think "I could easily be friends with her". But you have to realise what a magnet AdultFriendFinder is for all kinds of creeps. And also keep in mind that things are different for a woman, she could be in much trouble if she meets the wrong guy. Me not being able to take seriously a guy I met here, that is just my instinct. And I always follow my instinct.


calis1978 38M
65 posts
3/20/2006 4:14 am

My eperiences onthis site are quite different..

So fasr i've met 11 people from this site (10 on a meeting and had a few dates with one). With the girl i dates there was a strong sexual tension and we knew we'd end up in bed together at some point (i'm one of those guys that doesn't want to have sex on a first date).
She was a woman much like the guys you described...if she saw somehing she wanted she went for it and she had dates just for sex.

Feelings got her too though and she now has a boyfriend and is monogamous. The fact that we're not going to end up in bed honestly doesn't bother me at all...she's a friend and i really love her for that

Of course there are a lot of creeps here, but there are also loads and loads of normal people.


massagekoning 44M

3/20/2006 1:10 pm

ok ok... you win... no man can argue with a womans instinct


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