M/35/London Revisited ...  

TheQuietGuy2005 54M
3484 posts
8/6/2005 1:09 am

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M/35/London Revisited ...

Does it ever work?

You know what I mean: the guys jump into a chat room and their first line will be something like "M/35/London with 12 inches - anyone want to meet?" or the even more direct approach along the lines of "Any ladies in Leeds want to meet tonight for sex?" ... it's not too long since I saw "Nice pic ... can I suck your tits?".

Something in me rebels, tells me that this cannot possibly be a successful approach but I'm all too aware that this might be no more than my own unfounded prejudices kicking in; these guys could be adding a new notch to their bedposts each and every night for all I know. And, let's face it, there are women that post the same kind of line (except, of course, without penis measurements). They can't all be looking for credit cards, can they?

So I'm left wondering.

The obvious thing is for me to dive in there and give it a try, see what happens. There's one problem with that: it looks corny enough for me when I see it so the thought of actually doing it ... oh no, I just can't. Sad but true.

When I'm in a chat room, I'm there to chat (which, M/35, is not synonymous with fuck or even cyber) and to get to know people. Sure, if that moves into MSN or Yahoo or into an offline relationship - and maybe even one that ends up in bed - that's an added and welcome bonus but the initial pleasure is in the banter, in the contact with other human beings. I guess it reflects something deeper in me - I like to make new friends and get to know them and I particularly like to feel a connection of some kind with those I share a bed with.

And when it comes down to it, I'm not unhappy with that. I'm a little annoyed that I still have an inhibition against trying the more direct approach ... but not really very annoyed because I realise that I don't truly want to break it. To do so would be to put up a front, to pretend to be someone I'm not.

So I'd still like to know whether M/35/London with his long dong ever finds anything to do with it that involves more than his own hand but that's just my innate curiosity coming out.

Me? I'll chat.

Jx


helga_hansen 49F  
1987 posts
8/6/2005 11:54 am

J... when you come into the Tub, it's pleasing to know there is a gent there who wants to chat, and not wave his dick about. Trust me... you wouldn't last 1 minute, let alone 5, if you started your conversation with M/35/London...

I know your nights must be lonely sometime, but rather that than a bed falling about from all the notch marks along it!!!

Hx

Love, hugs and kisses from ♥♥HH♥♥


rm_Natcho66 50M
2 posts
8/7/2005 2:43 am

well my friend as we all agree the regulars who enter into he tub are not m/35/london type people but i can and will always be entering the words lol into my thoughts as m/35/london 12'' enters the tub because i dont think this man really exists if he does i think he should be on a dvd something maybe ending in dallas,
carry on Sir as you are
Vx


slightly_sexy8 38F
314 posts
8/11/2005 12:58 pm

you might actually be surprised how 'direct' some men can be here... directness can be very sexy with someone you know but with someone you have never come across before in your life it tends to seem a bit slimy to me. i have also wondered myself since i came on this site if women do actually respond to some of the comments made to them. teasing and playfulness is lovely, but some are actually nasty. that said, some of the women seem just as direct and i even sometimes wondered if they actually are women because i have never in my life come across women who talk as harshly as some. but then again, maybe this site allows them the freedom to do that?

i am just reading this while in the european hot tub, and you are there as well. you just made a comment in the room about wondering how many people had multiple identities which i notice nobody said much about. i was thinking when you said it that if you really wanted to know about the direct m/35/12" approach then why not try it under another name but perhaps not in the rooms where you are normally a visitor if you felt it would be wrong to chat with people you know under another name without identifying yourself. would it be wrong? i don't think so somehow, just another little adventure for you...


TheQuietGuy2005 54M
2386 posts
8/11/2005 10:30 pm

It's an idea, Slightly ... but at the end of the day, though I'm intrigued by the whole thing, I'm not intrigued enough to put up that kind of a front. It just wouldn't feel honest ... and, besides, if anyone responded to that sort of approach, they wouldn't be interested in the real - very different - person behind that front, would they? I'd far rather someone could just tell me from their own experience to slake my curiosity ...

As for the second ID thing, I can think of a number of good reasons for people to use them (and some baaaaaad ones) but I only raised it last night because an unknown ID came in that then behaved (a) as if she knew me and (b) in a way that seemed familiar. I am very wary of calling someone on it though - having been on the receiving end of a barrage of such claims when I first hit the Tub


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