Meet and Greets, AFF Parties, and Such...  

TheNookster 58M/58F
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8/1/2005 12:25 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Meet and Greets, AFF Parties, and Such...


I've gone to a few AdultFriendFinder meet and greets, parties and such, and always it has been a place with a huge number of people present, often no way to discern who is from AdultFriendFinder and who is not, and when it's an event that is almost exclusively AdultFriendFinder members I've found it to be very cliquish and if you aren't a member of the clique you might as well not exist.

And to be honest I'm a bit shy amongst total strangers anyway, but I'd sure like tips from people here, how to meet other members and get to know others.

How can a shy introvert become more of a social butterfly? I do enjoy live music so most of the events I've gone to have been music events. But most also seemed centered around alcohol, and while I'll have an occasional drink I'm really not interested in getting sloshed and I feel uncomfortable in a setting where you have to have a drink in your hand not to feel out of place.

Thoughts?

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