Talk Dirty to Me...  

TheMoonshield 34M
21 posts
8/3/2006 6:31 pm

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8/4/2006 7:19 am

Talk Dirty to Me...

Well after talking about cuddling, I thought I should try talking about something a little more spicy. This will also be the first in a series of three things that I always wanted to do or try, but were taboo in my previous relationship.

Now when I say that dirty talk was taboo in my relationship, I don't mean totally. It's use and the extent of the vocabulary used was extremely limited. For example if I were to say to "I love the way you suck my cock", or even something a little more dominating like "I want you to suck my fucking cock right now" that would be okay and actually turn her on (depending on her mood). Now if I said the exact same thing, but added a few 'names' it would be a different story... if I were to say anything like "suck my fucking cock you cock sucking whore" I know she would have either dumped me on the spot, or cut me off from sex for a good long time. Now before I get branded as a misogynistic male pig, I realize that not all women would be into hearing that kind of thing... did I really think my girlfriend a slut, whore, or bitch, absolutely not... well maybe a bitch sometimes Which brings me to the other side of the coin. As much as it would turn me on to say nasty dirty things to a woman, I don't know if I could bring myself to do it. I know they're just words and shouldn't be taken too seriously, but I would be in constant fear that for even just a moment the woman I am saying these things to would think I didn't respect her. This is part of the reason I am here. I want to know what sex is like uninhibited... well not completely, I can think of a few boundaries that I would still maintain, but way less inhibited and more exploratory than my previous relationship.

Since I am talking about dirty talk tonight, I cannot complete this entry without talking about one word. I know a lot of you reading this may laugh, but there is one word in the english language that I find completely vile for no solid reason at all. I am a person who is open minded and never insulted by anything except ignorance. I also enjoy throwing around similarly vile words such as fagot, dyke, or *insert racial slur here* (in good fun and in the appropriate crowd of course) while maintaining a very strong stance for the rights of all races, religions, lifestyles, and sexualities. The only time I am EVER insulted by words is when they are coming from the mouth of a racist, sexist, or otherwise TRULY ignorant human being. All that being said the one word I can't stand, the one that makes me cringe almost every time I hear it is cunt. *shudders* Which actually sucks, because when I talk dirty sometimes I want to say something more short, masculine and aggressive than pussy lol. Suggestions are always welcome by the way.

lostmydrinkagain 43F
2272 posts
8/3/2006 7:12 pm

I like when my partner talks dirty to me, but once we leave the bedroom, all those sayings are left behind. I'm not fond of the C word either, but I have used it a time or two when it really was the best word to describe something.

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