Should people tell the truth or lie about it..???  

TheInsight 40F
4 posts
7/26/2005 12:24 am

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Should people tell the truth or lie about it..???

There are many times happened to everyone when someone asked them about their life... then after they heared the story and found out about the past. Friends that you thought is was suddenly left or never heared from them..
No wonderthere are so many people who never tell the truth about them self it's bec,theyare affraid to lose those people that they think they have found a new friend..
should people have to lie about their life or just keep on telling the truth?

randyxxx1970 46M
2 posts
8/4/2005 7:32 am

My dear, if you want a lasting relationship, be it friendship, intimate or sexual there is nothing like being honest. Lying is simply betraying the other person and definitely, you will end losing him or her. Be yourself, be honest and if you dont wanna lie, just keep quiet. But of course, when you are directly asked, tell the whole story rather than for the other person to know about it from somebody else. If the other person rejects you because of the truth about the past, then be glad for you came to know what REAL type of person he/she is.

TheInsight 40F

8/10/2005 12:15 am

Thanks randy for the comment it. well i knew about it already and it doesn't hurt me much, it only makes me wonder why they JUDGE the person so much... they are NOT GOD to judge the person... right?

peterdarabbit3 52M

8/14/2005 4:19 pm

I think there are different types of lies. White lies and plain lies.
For example. I was married before. a long time ago. People at work or aquaintaces dont need to know my past.I work with alot of women and find that they love to use things against a person. Is that human nature. I think so. What about on a job application. I have lied. I was fired once but I ommited that on my application and job interview. I tend to be very reserved and dont tell all. There are certain things that should be kept to yourself except to those very close to you. There are things that even my closest friends dont know. There are things that one friend knows and the other doesnt. A big lie or a worst type oflie would be Infedility or lieing to you lifetime partner. I am very reserved and dont just trust anyone.

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