TheDodger8 45M
370 posts
6/16/2005 7:23 pm

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From now on I have decided to put the word Sex into each of my blogs titles. I have noticed anything with the word sex in the title..gets more views.

After reading many blogs and many many posts from all over Xmatch... I wrote my profile. I have only been here about 2 weeks as a standard member and have gotten a few winks... just getting a wink makes me feel kind of nice. Anyway....I think my profile is a bit to tame....or innocent for this place. I am thinking of getting a little more agressive...

As far a chat and such...well the nice guy thing just isn't working. I feel like I just get drowned out. I read a post by a guy somewhere on here talking about the Alpha male syndrome.. and how you need to be a bit rude, assertive, and crass to get noticed. I am beginning to think he is right... I will give it a little more time.... I am still getting used to this site...

Tala4u2 54M  
2957 posts
6/16/2005 8:49 pm

Yes we is such genteel and sophistimicated folk here, well I is don't knows about anyones else.

Tala, Wizard of The Kingdom of BooBoBia, DEITY,

mi_mwpm 51M

6/16/2005 9:02 pm

Dodger... us nice guys win occasionally too. I avoid the chatrooms, except for the Blogger chatroom. My paramour came from blogging... we flirted a lot then decided to see if things clicked offline. So far so good.

volcanoinu23 52M

6/16/2005 10:39 pm

Continue to show intelligence and be yourself. I have had a couple of nice encounters!

rm_GenuineTaste 51F
261 posts
6/16/2005 11:49 pm

Guess it all depends on who you want to end up with. I'm what you might call a lady in the streets and a little... I'll choose the word kinky verses freaky behind closed door. Heck! I might be a little kinky outdoors as well. Point I'm aiming at is...Personally! I don't respond to any sort of rudeness. It's fine to be assertive, and manners are always welcome. Rudeness is a turn off. You know better, that's why your a nice guy. Changing your personality to get a possible lay isn't becoming. True enough though, some woman get turned on by the most disrespectful things. Stay as you are in the long run, you'll go far.

Live&Let Live...Live&Learn

TheDodger8 45M

6/17/2005 3:33 pm

Thanks guys and gals! You give me hope. I really just want to be myself, so am gonna stick with it for a while. Nice way to put it Genuine... nice in the streets...Crazy in bed... just like me... hmm...might put that in the profile.

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