why do friends come and go?  

TheCelt35 52M
334 posts
7/24/2006 12:20 pm

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7/26/2006 1:51 pm

why do friends come and go?


Have you ever been mystified as to why certain friends dissapear out of our lives for no particular reason. Or have you had the pain of having to let go of someone because you have simply grown apart. Or have you had a bust up with your best friend for 10 years over something inconsequential and unjust...

Apparently its all Karmic!

Friends are fellow travellers (soul mates perhaps...but in the friend sense).

They come spend time with us to help us or to challenge us...but its all part of the mission we have chosen.

It can be summed up as follows

Friends are with us for a

reason
season
lifetime

the reason ones help us overcome something and go their sweet way once the lesson is learned

the season ones are only with us for a short time but they leave a permanent mark on our lives (a baby dies young perhaps?)

The lifetime ones (family kids partners inlaws esp!!) are friends we have had for many lifetimes and keep helping us (? challenging us)
until we are perfected

any thoughts...?

HBowt2 58F

7/24/2006 4:07 pm

I so hate letting go....but sometimes you cant move forward with letting go....and its hard to let the season ones go..they light up such a spark....


Sulabula 45F
12658 posts
7/25/2006 3:29 am

Sometimes it is easier to let go then keep on hurting that person

Sula xxx

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