Friends - reason season or lifetime  

TheCelt35 52M
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8/12/2006 8:37 am

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8/15/2006 1:44 am

Friends - reason season or lifetime

i found this on another blog - i tried to paraphrase this on a recent post here but this is teh original

its so cool


People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. When you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that person.

When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend and they are. They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on.

Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has come to share, grow or learn. They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it, it is real. But only for a season.

LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons, things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind, but friendship is clairvoyant.

Thank you for being a part of my life, whether you are here for a reason, a season or a lifetime.



TheCelt35 52M
489 posts
8/13/2006 11:57 am

    Quoting LipsSayAll:
    I usually have difficulty accepting that some people will have to leave my life, after the reason is served or after a season...but I understand that it can't always happen this way...

    Great post!
    Lips
ty lips..and welcome to my blog

yes i love it ...its a real help if youve ever been unfairly treated by people who you gave a lot of love to!


rm_Ellenback 58F
966 posts
8/14/2006 4:44 pm

I'm here, in your life, for a reason.....to teach you to bloody well spell!!! LMAOOO But, that just may turn into a lifetime, in your case!

(((softboobyhugs)))

Elle


TheCelt35 52M
489 posts
8/15/2006 1:43 am

    Quoting rm_Ellenback:
    I'm here, in your life, for a reason.....to teach you to bloody well spell!!! LMAOOO But, that just may turn into a lifetime, in your case!

    (((softboobyhugs)))

    Elle
ok ok

i cant spell the (teh) them (tehm) or anything else with the in it!

shoo me


TheCelt35 52M
489 posts
8/15/2006 1:44 am

    Quoting rm_heavenly_:
    I also believe this to be the case... people come into your life for reasons..its not just coincidence....and as you say, some stay longer, some for just a short time, but everyone has a reason for being there....x
yes heav

its all part of a cosmic fingerprint...i dont believe its all quite mapped out and that we still have choices to make along teh way ...but nothing happens randomly


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