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good things about living at home
good things about living at home
True, Mom's starting to drive me crazy this week, both of us being on vacation this week. But it's far from all bad.
And I'm bored so I figured I'd make a list or two. And play with colors and stuffs.
Good Things about Living at Home:
Someone being around to wake me up if I have to get up early for a doctor's appointment and sleep through my alarm
Only having to buy half my groceries
Mom surprising me (like today) by bringing me some Kentucky Fried Chicken for lunch
Dad with his snowblower so I don't have to dig my car out when there's lots of snow
Mom being around to feed the cats if I'm working late
Bad Things About Living at Home:
Not being able to come and go as I please/ Mom always wanting to know where I am
Having to masturbate quietly so no one hears me (I think it's better when you can make noise)
Not being able to invite a special someone over if I wanted
Not being able to buy all my own foods, so I'm not eating as healthy as I would like to be
Okay, I think that's all I can think of... *shrug* lol But just in the fact that I don't have to pay rent, which would totally completely fuck me over cuz I'm barely getting by as is, it's ok. The good things outweigh the bad.
Just this week's been frustrating, cuz usually I almost never see my parents when I'm working.
That didn't take as much time as I was hoping lol
Tomorrow night I'll be calling him! Yay- then Monday hopefully we'll be going to Rest. Depot. I say hopefully cuz it might have to be Tuesday... Kitchen renovations don't seem to be going as fast as we had planned, but hopefully we'll be able to open Tuesday. *crosses fingers*
And my schedule's all messed up cuz of vaca so my headaches have come back with a nice little vengeance. So hopefully by next weekend when I'm back into work, they'll go away again. *crosses toes*
Ooh, don't let me forget: I gotta get up at 7 tomorrow morning to go with Dad to take Nana to church so I need to get to bed early!!!
2/25/2006 5:52 pm
How will your parents respond if you start beahving like a real person and not their underaged daugher?|
Do they have the attitude that as long as you are there you must behave as if you are a clueless minor?
I'd say start testing them on it and if issues come up force them to face the contradictions in their line of thinking on it. SOmetimes parents need to grow up a bit but you being in the role of the underaged minor there (even though you aren't that young anymore it's still the role you play there) have an even more challenging part to play in standing up for your own inborn right to live an adult life.
And of course your parents always have their own right to boot you out the door because they don't approve of you acutally being a full grown adult "under their roof". And for them to also use the excuse that it's actually you who needs to grow up.
Who knows who's really right or wrong on thses differing viewpoints?
But if I was you I'd both start pushing the parental envelope there at the homestead while also planning a way that you might live somewhere else as both of these avenues pave a way for you to actally be who you need to be. I don't think the avenue you're on right now meets that criteria well enough.
I have brought girlfriends into my parents overnight before but not without getting a lot of crap about it from my mom.
My dad never seemed to mind though.
After my mom died it essentially became a non issue. But still there are other challenges my dad still might sometimes cause if I might do something like that again so all of the difficulties surrounding it are not completely gone.
That having been said if you do break through the barrier of being able to brng guys home you can bet that you might sometimes still get some funky attitude about it from the folks.
2/25/2006 5:55 pm
Ahh... I can comprehend.|
2/25/2006 7:28 pm
2/26/2006 9:00 am
Parents are looking out for you its only natural. I belive that under thier roof means thier rules and you should resecpt that. I also agree with KC_JJ about pushing the boundaries. You always said that you had a nice open relationship with your mom, so I must ask you why hadn't you discussed this situation with her? I think the biggest issue would be your dad, I'm sure that he doesn't want to listen to his daughter making love in the next room. And then wake up the next morning and have coffee with him. If you were to start paying rent on the other hand would give you more freedom and rights as a renter. I think if you want to masturbate and make noise turning up the radio, doing it in the shower might work, I think it's just a matter of your own creativity.|