Something I need to read every day.  

TheBadAngel22 36F
390 posts
4/30/2006 8:42 pm

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5/5/2006 11:06 pm

Something I need to read every day.


I happened upon this on the blog of carebearluv2- Some advice for women...- and it totally completely fits, so I asked to borrow it to put on my blog to read every day so it'll all sink in!
Thanks carebearluv2!
{=}Ella

If A Man Wants You
(Written by a man!!!!!)

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.

Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.

Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.

Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be.

Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.

If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then hell no, you can't "be friends."

A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.

Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.

The only person you can control in a relationship is you.

Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently?

Always have your own set of friends seperate from his.

Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.

If something bothers you, speak up.

Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later. You cannot change a man's behavior.

Change comes from within.

Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are... even if he has more education or in a better job.

Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man; nothing more, nothing less.

Never let a man define who you are.

Never borrow someone else's man. If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.

A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.

All men are NOT dogs.

You should not be the one making all the effort; compromise is a two way street.

You need time to heal between relationships, there is nothing cute about baggage. Deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.

You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you. A relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals. Look for someone complimentary;not supplementary.

Dating is fun, even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.

Make him miss you sometimes! When a man always know where you are, and you're always readily available to him, he takes it for granted.

Never move into his mother's house. Never co-sign for a man.

Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.

Keep him in your radar but get to know others.

Djeeper1987 47M

4/30/2006 9:12 pm

Amen!! Not all men are dogs. Don't forget its also a 2 way street. Saying that the women needs to follow this guideline. I believe if you did one for the man. As I have been heart broken several times and learn that and this to get to this point in my life where as I feel with the knowledge I have gain will hopefully help me with my next relationship.

Carpe Diem


SirMounts 102M

5/3/2006 7:21 pm

Hey, what about us Guys who actually Are quasi-gods? *admiring self in mirror*


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