Where is she ?  

TheAngMoDude 41M
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7/17/2005 7:20 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Where is she ?

I met a beautiful babe at a party a month ago or so. As soon as we were introduced, she checked me out like mad, or so it seemed to me at the time. When she left with a friend I was devastated, until I learnt they actually live close to each other and were just sharing a taxi.
It didn't take me long to get her number and arrange a date. She was at least as enthuisastic as I was and even though I am usually pretty shy on the first date, it went smoothly. At the time, I was staying at a friend's, so I couldn't invite her to my place when she asked if we were going our separate ways... We promised to meet again.
Unfortunately, she fell sick a few days later. During that period, I really had the impression she changed her mind as I would not get her to reply to most of my messages. Finally, after pressing her somewhat, we had another date, last week. She hadn't fully recovered so when I asked her to kiss her, she replied we would kiss when she's better.
I told her how I felt about her before she left. She said we should take things as they come and I agreed. I got back home very hopeful.
The week after our second date, I offered her to join me for a coffee, a movie, etc... without success. And last thursday, I had enough of not being able to get a clear answer from her. After repeated requests, she was still unable to say what she thought of me. I told her that I preferred being told the truth if she didn't like me, but no, she had to come up with some non-sense like "being busy with survival".
So frustrating... I am not sure whether I did the right thing by interpreting this as a "no" and telling her she should make up her mind. Maybe I was too pressing and she needed time to make a decision.

rm_CrAzYaBtSeX7 39F

7/28/2005 9:04 am

As a woman myself, i know that women hate to be pester, so, why not just wait and see, maybe you will get a surprise from her!

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