Former 1/2 of couple returns to lifestyle as single male...  

The9000Series 44M
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5/19/2006 11:27 am

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5/19/2006 1:52 pm

Former 1/2 of couple returns to lifestyle as single male...

Okay... so I've decided to do the blog thing here. Since this is by far the most interesting part of my life as well as something I don't share with most people I know outside of the lifestyle.

I'm returning to this lifestyle after having been part of a couple, so now I'm the dreaded "single male", commonly thought of as the hungry scrawny dog pacing around from the outside and drooling at those on the inside. Yes, the single ladies and couples... close to the nice warm comfortable fire where partners are more eager to meet you while us single males hope for a scrap.

While the above may sound a little bitter, I'm really not. In fact that is what I think of most single males myself. The good news about me is that I realize why many single men aren't looked at fondly, it's because most of them are jackasses. Someone said it in the Ohio chatroom the other night and I think it applies, a "leg humper". Fortunately for me, I'm not one of those. The leg humpers need to get a clue and realize that just because they signed up for the site doesn't mean you are going to walk into an orgy the moment you contact someone. Just like any other relationship you build it. Be intelligent, have conversation, get to KNOW the people... oh... and it doesn't hurt to be somewhat decent looking. Realize that as a single man, you are a dime a dozen, I do, and work knowing you have a handicap to overcome.

Having come from a couple when I started in the lifestyle, I think gives me a unique perspective trying to re-enter as a single male. Hopefully soon I wont be a single male. Being somewhat attractive, respectful and possessing a hell of a personality has me talking to several single ladies already. Hopefully someone will pan out and I'll be a "couple" soon.

rm_PurryKitty2 48M/49F
9753 posts
5/19/2006 12:04 pm

Good luck!

Purry {=}


The9000Series 44M

5/19/2006 12:12 pm

Thanks PurryKitty2 liked your blog, unique and fun!

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