Singles Scene ...  

Thangz 44F
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1/15/2006 8:12 am

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Singles Scene ...

~~an ongoing study~~

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So as a member of this Singles site .. which is more a euphamism for Sex site ... I spent a bit of time this morning scanning through the "men" who would fit into my category of acceptable. What I found was somewhat surprising.

First ... its very hard to believe a man has sexual prowess beyond "anything else ever experienced" when he cant even spell the name of the City/Town he lives in, or fill out a profile that reads even partially intellectually ...

Second its hard to believe that a man is an honest man when he is MARRIED and says only that he wants "discreet" encounters.... YA THINK? ... lol most married men that are cheating on their wives DO prefer some discretion.

The next big thing I noticed was how many men swear they give oral and LOVE it ... now, having spoken to some of the women on the site ... I call BULLSHIT. Most men wont give oral to someone that is a one nite stand and generally they will most certainly expect to RECEIVE it instead ...

The most amusing thing is how many people say they arent looking for a relationship ... BUT .. they want ONE partner to "make love" to ... NEWS FLASH ... if you are making love then that is a relationship ... Otherwise you are just two people who bump uglies in the nite and may as well leave ....

Now, in all fairness I am not a male and dont know what its like from the OTHER side but I am certain that women are just as ... deceiving and again that amuses me. In my profile on this site im blunt and honest .. I state PLAINLY what I want and expect and well ... still get hit on by men who are sure im "flexible" on what I want .... so I think that from the other side women must lie and deceive a lot as well ... or do a lot of "I dont want ...." but can be "talked into" something ...

Just some observations from my ongoing experiences on the "Singles Site"


stov62 54M
10 posts
2/3/2006 9:04 am

You know what I think is interesting is that this site "sign in" list tends to pin one down by the choices it offers (e.g 1 on 1 sex, erotic e-mail, etc...), hence I do not necessarily believe that it is other than a sex site, nes pas?


stov62 54M
10 posts
2/3/2006 9:06 am

You know what I think is interesting is that this site "sign in" list tends to pin one down by the choices it offers (e.g 1 on 1 sex, erotic e-mail, etc...), hence, I do not necessarily believe that it is other than a sex site, nes pas? Good comment though...


Thangz 44F

2/4/2006 11:31 am

lol stov ..yes and no dear heart . I think that there are some (like myself) who THINK they know what they wanted when they joined and perhaps now have reassessed the site ... and yes I agree that there is a list that defines one's "needs" per say but that doesnt mean those are the only needs and desires a person has, does it?


stov62 54M
10 posts
2/8/2006 2:28 pm

True. And true. I too have re-assessed this site and have determined that the nature of this site remains sexual (the main reason why most post naked pics, lol), as such, one need not be surprised with the e-mails one receives. However, it is also likely that one may extract from this site what one requires/desires so long as they convey to such other contacts all such guidelines, nes pas? Myself, this could become a medium to which I may meet that special someone, then again it may not facilitate such, in fact, it may end up being a mere intellectual/entertainment venture.


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