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Being a Bitch
Being a Bitch
A lot of times women get accused of being 'bitches' but maybe just maybe we have a reason for being that way. Like reading over my last post - which was awhile back. That man pursued me on and off online for over a year.. and claimed he wanted to meet. When we did.. he had 4 orgasms / ejaculations and claimed to be so impressed and wanted to be a couple and swing together etc. But he runs hot and cold. Sometimes not calling for months.. Recently I called him to let him know I was headed to Dallas ( I am a truckdriver ) and if he wanted to go to the floor with me I was free. He said he did, but that he was in Florida and would call me when he got back. AND he did.. call.. and we were supposed to meet around 9 again he was going to call and name the place.. WELL ya guessed it.. HE didnt call, and still hasnt. YEah and and he has a profile here in AdultFriendFinder. Probably chasing other women and then doing a disappearing act on them as well. No wonder we get Bitchy.
No one likes to be played as a fool or treated rudely.
Dated a doctor from california I met on another site.. SLS. He called all the time but every time he did call we were interrupted by other calls.. and he'd say I'll call ya later. Well sometimes later was 2 or 3 days. Didnt want to talk around family or friends or work.. so our calls took place when he was driving from one clinic to another. Man claims he is divorced.. Okay. WHAT you do in your personal life is your business but geez.. I do hate being lied to and played.
I originally very nicely declined meeting the man because i knew that there was no real possibility of anything coming of it because of my job, and his, and the distance. Right? AND I already have some 'friends with benefits' I dont need a whole menagerie of men to keep entertained. LOL SO why add one from so far away? BUT he pursued.. '"Oh, if things work out.. I could move there, sell my practice etc.. I have a brother who is an attorney there and we have a business together so I am in Dallas a couple of times a month".
Etc Etc. SOOO when guys write and start giving me that same spiel.. is it any wonder I get a little bitchy?
I enjoy no strings play on occasion but I detest being lied and decieved or used. Who doesnt. No, I dont want to get involved in a 'discreet' relationship where the man is cheating on his wife. Sorry I understand ya may have your reasons.. but I why should I assist in your deception when I would not want it done to me?
Be open, be honest.
Thats all I ask.
9/1/2006 2:48 pm
I'm glad you got that off your chest.. no good to keep emotions all bottled up..|