Sexual Escapads of the Male vs. the Female  

TexasMiss596 39F
36 posts
6/27/2005 9:23 pm

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Sexual Escapads of the Male vs. the Female


This past weekend, I spent an evening of food, drinks, and umm, fun lol catching up with friends and a few new acquaintances. During hands of cards and shots of liquor, the topic of our sexual pasts came up. The males at the table began naming off one after another of people they had sexual escapades and relationships with over the years. In turn, the other females and I began to list the males of the opposite sex (and a few females lol) that we had had encounters with. As our lists grew in deep thought remembering the people that had crossed our paths, the males sitting at the table began to make comments about the umm, variety lol of the people in which we mentioned. The men considered their score card more of a trophy of sorts while the more we named, the more we were referred to as loose and well, sluts lol.

Why is it that it is different for one and not the other? As its been said, it takes two to tango and I have danced the horizontal mambo regularly. In fact, dancing is one of my favorite pastimes, so what is so wrong about a sexually independent woman pursuing adult activities even if it is a one-night stand. In all honesty, everyone can name a time when they had ulterior motives just to get someone in the sack–be it real attraction, curiosity or just plain hormones. Clothes come off in the same way no matter if they are male or female. lol

So my dance card is full, what’s it to you? Especially when I can see the notches in your bedpost from here. lol

;o)

avlicker2 54M

6/28/2005 8:57 pm

Ladies should be able to have as many friends as they would like, without being judged by anyone. However, I think you are right in that there are different standards being upheld. That is, guys think it is normal behaviour for them to thump their chests in front of everyone and brag about their conquests, while at the same time, they believe that ladies should only discuss their experiences quitely in the back room.


TexasMiss596 39F

6/30/2005 7:57 am

ive never been quiet in my life when it came to sex LOL ;
thanks AV


TexasMiss596 39F

6/30/2005 7:57 am

ive never been quiet in my life when it came to sex LOL ;o)
thanks AV


opensecrets12 36M

7/5/2005 5:49 pm

people hold a double standard for women. It's no secret and it doesn't seem to be changing either. I always expected that it would change with women proliferating the workplace, but as long as mothers still warn their daughters not to dress like a "hussy" or "slut" while dismissing their sons with "boys will be boys"- it won't change.


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