Marking Your Territory  

TexasMiss596 39F
36 posts
7/5/2005 9:17 pm

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Marking Your Territory

Chatting with a friend today, the conversation in a roundabout way moved to women and men marking their territory. I jokingly told him that he can mark all he wants, but i better not catch him peeing on my trees in the front yard. lol. Are you jealous, possessive, not bothered in the least when someone looks at your signifigant other? I know guys that say they feel complimented when another man notices their companion and others that are ready to beat their chest and roar in what are you?

Lets turn the table even more. Would you feel comfortable watching another man passionately make love to your girlfriend/wife? What about her and another woman? At what point do we decide that its ok to share if at all? I know its different strokes for different folks but are you selfish in the least?

rm_lookmyway44 52

7/5/2005 10:51 pm

Men yes ,women no. Women as you know ( more the rule of thumb )have affairs based on emotion and connection. Men have more of an animal reaction. So to say it short if I am perceive that my lover is enjoying another man on a emotional level my claws would come out. If it is just sex for the pleasure of sex I would be OK .

avlicker2 54M

7/10/2005 5:29 pm

When I first got married, I was the possessive type. However, I've mellowed over the years, and realized there are more important things in life than who is looking at who. So, if someone looks at her, that's cool by me, especially if she's holding my hand.

Now, about someone doing it with my wife - that's a little harder just because she is so conservative in her sex life, that I just can't picture her in that situation. However, if she was inclined to an open relationship, that would be fine. But like lookmyway, it would have to be on a sexual basis / having fun only type of thing, not a "relationship" type of thing.

Idunno135 33M

7/11/2005 2:46 pm

I hate it when the woman I am interested in gets that look in her eyes when a pretty boy walks around or some guy who knows how to wow (I apparently have the ability to make a romantic encounter flop) a girl comes up and blatantly flirts with her in front of me. It makes me feel like I am nothing in his eyes. When she starts back earnestly, I sorta just go quiet. I mean what's the point? I can;t talk to them because I don;t want to hit on the guy and the girl sometimes... hell DOES take me for granted.

There are times when she'll go on and on about her Ex's, one of which is comming back down soon, who can fuck the hell out of her like no one else. She'll never give me the chance, and everytime I comment she gets upset. I don't think I could bare watching a man fuck her. I can barely stand the thought of someone doing her now. But I know she only does it for the release. She doesn't want to screw up what we got.

I know, very possesive, but she's so far the only one I have ever felt this way about. She's the one I have known the longest, loved the longest, desired the longest.

lonlyguyintx 54M
1 post
8/30/2005 1:49 pm

I am very selfish in this area, I will admit that. I would not ever share a woman that I care about deeply with another man. Sorry, but I just could not do it. Now, I will also admit that if it came to sharing with another woman, I might think differently. So I am insecure and greedy, I will admit that. It is just the way that I am.

bobselect2 46M/44F
1 post
2/24/2006 11:22 am

That topic is my biggest fantasy! I always get extremely exited when I think about, (daydream), my wife making it with others. It would be a possibility if she was inebriated and in the right situation, but she denies this. I will always hope for it!

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