Squirting Questions??? For reaching the ultimate orgasm....  

TexasMar 43F
563 posts
11/17/2005 4:39 pm

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Squirting Questions??? For reaching the ultimate orgasm....

I keep hearing all these wonderful things about squirting....like it is the greatest feeling in the world. You will feel like you cant get enough from your man after you have squirted. I hear squirting is the greatest release a woman can have.

I have even heard some comments from the mans point of view. Some men LOVE it when their woman can squirt. They think it is the most awesome thing in the world. They like to watch it. Men love having the power to make women squirt. Men love soaking it up with their tounges and drinking it in.

My question is this....HOW IS IT DONE????

I have been told to relax, use your kegel muscles, use the same muscles that you use to go pee, or when you feel like you do have to pee, push. I have tried all of these tips and nothing seems to be working. I just dont seem to be getting there. I do seem to be getting almost to that point, but I am just not quite there.

If anyone has any tips, or any ideas that will help me with my quest to reach the ultimate orgasm please feel free to tell me.


rm_Ptalk1155 34M
3450 posts
11/17/2005 5:52 pm

As I understand it, this is mostly a function of the woman. That is to say, some women will and some women won't. What you're looking to have is a G-spot orgasm, and I have given quite a few of those and not had a woman squirt as a result. (But she definitely enjoyed it anyway, damn near broke my hand!)

Here's a couple tutorials for you:
G-Spot Play
http://AdultFriendFinder.com
Squirting
http://AdultFriendFinder.com

Good luck!


TheLilFondler 33F  
2576 posts
11/18/2005 5:40 pm

no any female can squirt... most just dont realize how to make it happen.... there are also sites out there that help give pointers on it... most just think only some can do it... and you can squirt from more then just g spot stimulation as well... clitoral stimulation can cause you to squirt as well... i didnt get to where i could till just here recently

i lost my virginity years ago.....
but i still have the box.....


TexasMar 43F

11/18/2005 6:57 pm

Ptalk

Thank you for the tips, I will check out your tips. I really want to learn how to do this.

Sounds like you know how to give a woman a good orgasm....


TexasMar 43F

11/18/2005 7:00 pm

TheLilF

I have been told by many that every female has this capability, I just dont know if there is something that I am doing to block this from happening. I am dying to accomplish this feat.

I will look at the site you suggested as well. Thank you for your tip.


Remohes55 67M
14 posts
11/19/2005 8:03 am

SQUIRTING
I have no real bone to pick with squirters except when they go to great lengths to convince people it is equivalent to male ejaculate.
Squirting is urine, plain fact. Women do not a gland that manufactures an ejaculate, it come out of the urethra, which is a tube about 2 inches long that connects directly to the urinary bladder. Consider, our bodies are wonderful machines, our body don't do anything wasteful, so to what purpose would nature have endowed women to ejaculate. If it serves no purpose then a body that by its very nature tries to conserve everything except waste would not evolve that way. Now it is true women often experience contractions when they climax and these contractions vary but can include skeletal muscles and smooth muscles of the vagina, rectum, and bladder. Bladder contractions could easily result in a squirt of urine as a woman has her climax. As women, and men, age it is often the case that bladder control becomes a problem, laughing, straining, lifting, and running can course leakage.
Squirting is also in the context of sex is, play-like, just many other things in a rich sex life involve fantasy. "Lets play-like I can cum to" and to many people this is more acceptable than "I just peed on you". Men and women buy into the female "cum" thing and build fantasies around it. Many people find pissing erotic after all it is the same organs involved and unless someone has an infection pee is innoxious.
My point is if you enjoy it, do it and have fun whether it is a leak, or a contraction, or a voluntary squirt. It is your bedroom do the things you like to do. But when women or men began to put this out as "female ejaculation of female cum", I think I have the right to set the record straight


TheLilFondler 33F  
2576 posts
11/19/2005 1:41 pm

Remohes you dont know what your talking about hun.... it has been medically proven..... they have researched it and it is a different substance then urine.... there is a really good website on it if you would like me to send it to ya....

i lost my virginity years ago.....
but i still have the box.....


popcorn224 57M
6 posts
11/19/2005 1:46 pm

Squirting is real and it is not urine. I have been with women that do and I know for a fact it is not urine. It is a different color and it is thicker. This is something a women can accomplish and it is a technique a partner can use that is simple to learn. In addition once a women learns to relax and let go and know it is not a sensation to urinate but that she is going to squirt.

To say it is not true is just because a person has not witness the process nor did they research it to try and make a partner cum so hard they squirt.


TexasMar 43F

11/19/2005 6:08 pm

Remohes55

I think you totally have a right to your opinion. The only thing I hope you are not saying with your answer is that you dont think women "cum" in general or at all. I can give you the right to your opinion as far as squirting goes, but please tell me yout think women cum or to use a better word have an orgasm.


TexasMar 43F

11/19/2005 6:10 pm

chuchotte2

I promise I will let you know when I have it figured out!!!

I will probably write about it on here, if it dosent get blocked. This one got blocked the first time I wrote it and I had to edit it.


Remohes55 67M
14 posts
11/20/2005 6:54 pm

SQUIRTS ARE URINE. THERE HAVE BEEN HUNDREDS OF THOUSANDS OF AUTOPSIES OF FEMALE CADAVERS AND NEVER HAS ANYONE FOUND FOUND ANY SECRET GLAND OR BLADDER OR ANY OTHER CAVITY IN A FEMALE THAT WAS "WOMAN CUM" MACHINE. THERE A SEVERAL GLANDS THAT SECRETE A LUBRICANT FOR A WOMAN BUT NONE TO THE VOLUME SQUIRTER'S HAVE. NOW I HAVE NO PROBLEM WITH ANYONE HAVING PISS PLAY AS PART OF SEX AND IT IS WELL KNOWN MANY WOMEN HAVE BLADDER LEAKS AS THEY GET OLDER ESPECIALLY IF THEY HAVE GIVEN BIRTH. SO ENJOY YOUR SQUIRTS AND IF YOU HAVE ANY DOUGHTS HAVE YOUR LAB TECH RUN YOUR SAMPLE AND IT WILL COME BACK JUST THE SAME AS YOUR URINE.
BUT LIKE I SAY IF IT FEELS GOOD TO YOU, DO IT AND FEEL GOOD.


rm_Ptalk1155 34M
3450 posts
11/20/2005 9:39 pm

Remohes55 you have no idea what you are talking about. Give me one of these so-called studies so I can laugh at it.

Mar: I know my way around a woman's anatomy yes, that's mainly due to quite a bit of reading on the subject. Unfortunately, I'm a little out of practice lately.

Don't waste your eyes on the jackass' posts, he doesn't know anything about it clearly. The thing to which he refers is how some of the porn sites will fake it by having women urinate instead. The squirt is very similar to the rest of your natural lubricants. Unfortunately, I've never gotten a woman to do it.

Yes, all women have the capability, it's just that some are less likely candidates than others. Some grow up doing it every time they orgasm, others never do it at all. Some women only do it when they have anal sex. But, it seems the easiest way is the G-spot as I mentioned, so read up on that and find yourself a patient willing partner.

Oh, most importantly, have fun!


TheLilFondler 33F  
2576 posts
11/21/2005 12:04 am

i have looked this subject up many times... and i will post a few of the researching comments on it

Alice,

Every time I feel like I want to orgasm, I stop because it feels like I have to pee. I don't know if I have to pee or if I'm really having an orgasm. Please help.



Dear Reader,

Sexual physiology has confused and confounded most people at some point. Wanting to have an orgasm, and having the courage to ask for the information you need to have one, are two big steps in the right direction.

Men do not urinate and ejaculate at the same time. When a man is about to ejaculate, the opening to his bladder closes to prevent urine from mixing with semen. So, men can't pee when they come.

For women, things are a little more complicated. It's possible for women to urinate and orgasm at the same time, and, as a result, some women do hold back on orgasms to prevent this from happening. However, it's also easy to confuse the sensation of impending orgasm with the urge to pee. Women who have urinary stress incontinence sometimes "leak" urine when they laugh, sneeze, or orgasm. This is more common in women who have had children. Women can gain control over "leaking" by practicing Kegel exercises, which strengthen the pelvic muscles around the vagina and urethra. (To learn how, check out Kegel Technique in Alice's Sexuality archive.)

Women who do not experience urinary incontinence at other times, but feel the urge to pee when approaching orgasm, are most likely getting confusing messages from very sensitive parts of their bodies. The clitoris, which is the focus of sexual pleasure for women, is located about a finger width above the opening of the urethra. It's hard to stimulate one without rubbing the other. So, empty your bladder before sex [it's a good idea to pee before and after sex to help prevent urinary tract infections (UTIs) – see Urinating before and after sex: Can it prevent pregnancy and STDs? in Alice's Sexual Health archive for more info], and then go and/or come! Keep the feeling and don't stop despite your urge to pee. If it'll make you feel more comfortable letting go, try masturbating with a towel under you or in the shower and see what happens. Orgasm may be a pee away!

Alice

here is one from a very good site i found.... Mar hun i will snd that site to you as well...

i lost my virginity years ago.....
but i still have the box.....


TheLilFondler 33F  
2576 posts
11/21/2005 12:05 am

Hey Alice,

I read your info regarding female ejaculation. I was surprised to know it ejects from the urethra. However, I would love to know where it is produced (like men's is produced in their testicles). I have been unable to find any information regarding this. Your site is the first place I have ever been able to have the issue acknowledged. Thanks.



Dear Reader,

Like Stonehenge, solar eclipses, and countless other wonders of nature, female ejaculation has provoked both awe and controversy. Because the fluid in question is expelled from the urethra upon orgasm, many researchers, women, and their partners believed that the phenomena of female ejaculation was really just a loss of bladder control. The book, The G Spot, by sex researcher and educator Beverly Whipple, and colleagues Alice Ladas and John Perry, broke through the silence and embarrassment that surrounded female ejaculate, leading many to G Spot joy.

Now researchers believe that female cum is produced by the Skene's glands, which are located in a woman's urethra and are made of tissue that's similar in composition to a man's prostate gland. These researchers point to chemical analysis of female ejaculate that reveals the presence of high levels of prostatic acid phosphatase (a chemical secreted by the prostate gland and found in semen). This would seem to indicate that a woman's ejaculation is similar in composition to semen (only without the sperm, of course).

Although modern science may not know exactly yet what female ejaculation is, women who experience it, and the intense orgasms that usually accompany it, are only too happy to conduct their own experiments, and direct partners with cries of, "Oh, yes, right there... THERE!"

Alice

here is another

i lost my virginity years ago.....
but i still have the box.....


TheLilFondler 33F  
2576 posts
11/21/2005 12:08 am

Is Female Ejaculation Real?

I can't tell you how many times web site visitors call and ask the same question... "Is this for real?"

Yes, it is! Having been a psychotherapist for years I decided to teach what I knew of female ejaculation to the public as I was shocked to find that most people are not educated about it, including physicians. It was incredible to me that in this day and age people still think it is urine or fake!

It was during my research for my book and video The Art of Female Ejaculation, that I developed unique theories as to how ALL women could easily achieve it through specific techniques alone or with a partner.

My book and video are the ONLY places you will find everything about it- from what it is, how it works, as well as techniques to achieve it. The reason is that not only do we provide the physical aspects of this beautiful sexual experience, but we also review the psychological aspects of inhibitors that can keep a women from fully exploring her sexuality as well as experiencing female ejaculation.

Too often those who make Better Sex Videos forget to look at the "whole" person when teaching sexual techniques and neglect that things like performance anxiety, perceptions and attitudes toward one's body and sexuality can impact sexual functioning.

We address it all and thus is why we call our company...as we see that you are more than your genitals... you are a whole person that needs to have ALL of your sexuality addressed, not just the physical part.

and yet another.... it has been researched greatly hun and you need to look it up sometimes and gets your facts straight.... it is a totally different substance.... urine is watery and yellow.... female ejaculation is thick and clear....

i lost my virginity years ago.....
but i still have the box.....


TheLilFondler 33F  
2576 posts
11/21/2005 12:15 am

Often times, when people find our site, they are convinced that female ejaculation is pee (urine) and that our video clips are just women peeing. This is NOT the case.

Female ejaculation is very real, and scientific studies that are reviewed in my book & video The Art of Female Ejaculation document that it is not pee, but rather similar to prostate fluid which comes from the Skenes glands.

It was not long ago (prior to 1964) that physicians were actually recommending cigarettes to patients to ease stress! It just goes to show that even the medical community makes mistakes and lacks knowledge at times.

One such mistake in regard to women's sexuality is the lack of understanding of the Skenes glands. These glands make up the g-spot and store the female ejaculate that builds inside them and can be released if desired.

Considering the lack of previous study of women's sexuality until recent years, I find it rather presumptuous of people to think that if it were true we would all have been educated about it long ago. It was not that long ago physicians diagnosed women with "hysteria," a vague but commonly used medical term to describe a long list of symptoms including lower pelvic edema, vaginal lubrication, nervousness, irritability, shortness of breath and other somatic expressions of arousal. Physicians would then masturbate women until they achieved an orgasm to treat it!

You may recall that once upon a time, we were also hanging women for being a witch just because she expressed an interest in sexuality; so while the feminist movement did help women's sexual issues become more acceptable and we have come a long way... we have a lot further to go.

My female ejaculation movie and book break through many of the female ejaculation myths and finally provide the truth about this wonderful and very real sexual experience!

here is another one done by Dr Lisa S Lawless....

sorry about the attack of posts TxMar *fondles...

i lost my virginity years ago.....
but i still have the box.....


TexasMar 43F

11/21/2005 8:34 pm

popcorn

Thanks for the encouragement...I will keep trying

eager

Nice try...I wont be going on camera with my squirting IF I accomplish this for two reasons.....One I dont have a camera...and two I am not that bold. I will promise you this. I will write you another blog about it and keep you updated on it.

remohes

Again you are entitled to your opinion, but I still think you are facinated with the whole idea and just dont want to admit it, or you would not have gotten so upset that you felt the need to "shout" your whole reply to me.

ptalk

Thank you for sticking up for me!!! I hope you continue to keep trying to bring a woman to squirting if that is your desire. I will continue to work on the willing and patient partner as well. Thank you for the kind words. I hope you are having fun with it as well.


TexasMar 43F

11/21/2005 8:42 pm

LilF

Hon, You can attack my post all you want.... I found that very interesting and very informative. I may even have to go out and buy these books you are talking about. You sure do know what you are talking about. I can tell you have done your homework. Please keep attacking me anytime you want......lol *winks*


rm_Ptalk1155 34M
3450 posts
11/22/2005 4:11 pm

*in his best Southern John Wayne-ish drawl*
Well, no need to thank me little lady. Just doin' my job, ma'am.


TheLilFondler 33F  
2576 posts
11/23/2005 4:55 am

the one that actually pointed me to some of that isfo was popcorn.... he was a big help.. i have gotten to where i can sometime just havent mastered it yet LOL but still practicing hehehe.... *fondles n licks...

i lost my virginity years ago.....
but i still have the box.....


rm_saintlianna 45F
15466 posts
11/28/2005 1:07 pm

If I read squirt one more time I am gonna crack. Never have and if I did I would be like, what the fuck is that?


TexasMar 43F

11/29/2005 8:25 am

ptalk

you are too cute

LilF

well I am glad you stumbled onto my blog....also glad for his info...and you can fondle and lick me any day..

St

You never know babe you might like it if it were to happen to you. It is suppose to be the most intense orgasm you have ever had.


69wu2005 73M
5 posts
11/29/2005 12:24 pm

We are to infused by the excriments that comes from the human body. I have never seen a woman who "squirts", and probably will never see one in my life time, I would like to see it though. Why can't we just have sex and forget about where whatever comes from and if it is something or another? If you eat pussy you don't worry about urine or anything else, your really close to the chocolate hiway and you don't worry abot that, so what is the problem with squirting if it's urine or not, a womans period is far messier than that.......


TexasMar 43F

11/29/2005 2:03 pm

69wu

GOOD POINT!!! I agree, I dont worry about urine when I am going down on anyone either.


limitseek 41M
1 post
11/29/2005 6:58 pm

I have only been with one woman who was aware and capable of it, but I sure enjoyed it. (she probably did too)


TheLilFondler 33F  
2576 posts
11/30/2005 8:40 pm

well TexasMar i had a blast researching it hun.... and since i already had the info on hand i thought i might as well share it with ya when i seen your blog... and i am glad i stumbled upon it too hun *fondles n licks all over

i lost my virginity years ago.....
but i still have the box.....


rm_JimW11373 44M

12/5/2005 4:52 pm

If you really want to learn about squirting...check out the video Squirting 101. It works wonders lol and I've gotten 3 of my last 4 girlfriends to squirt thanks to it.

Have a good one

Jim


TexasMar 43F

12/5/2005 5:27 pm

Jim

And where would I get this said video?


JatosAbideLorry 56M
60 posts
2/14/2006 5:22 am

In the last several weeks, I have been spending time with a few women who are regular squirters. I'd seen several women squirting at a few of the parties where I'd been attending but got to experience the phenomenon directly.

That first time, the lights were very dim and as I felt the hot gushes of liquid spashing against my hand as my fingers worked inside her pussy along the rough area along the upper wall of the vagina. The liguid felt hot and the force and volume of the spray made we wonder if, in fact, she was urinating. I wasn't going to worry about it, but out of curiousity, I checked the hand that was covered by the liquid and it was odorless, unlike urine. I was convinced it was an ejaculation, rather than a urination.

In fairness, in reading about the phenomenon in Wikpedia, there is some evidence that low levels substances found in urine (uric acid) have been found in female ejaculate, while at the same time asserting the unique and distinguishable substances are the primary ingredient, including, as some have mentioned a substance similar to male ejaculate minus the sperm. It's clear that female ejaculation is a distinct event and mechanism than urination.

This weekend I got an up close and personal introduction to squirting. During a swingers party up in Ottawa, I was playing with a great lady who I know is a frequent squirter. She was in a mfm 3some including me, and I managed to help her ejaculate profusely, including a huge gush right in the face from about a foot and a half away. The ejaculate was completely clear and as with my other friends production, completely odorless. It has a heavier consistency than urine as well. You may have to wait until you experience it to be a believer, but if you lack proof, I suggest you remain hopeful.


TexasMar 43F

2/26/2006 8:08 pm

Major

Thank you for that testimony....I have also just recently had the HONOR to play with a woman that is a gusher and I LOVE it. Since I have not yet mastered that wonderful task I can only testify on the few times I have done it and the many times that i have gotten to play with the women that have done it to me. I still believe that it is NOT urine. There is NO odor and I still believe that it is amazine. Having done it only a few times I do know that it feels amazing and does feel different that a regular orgasm.

Kisses to you babe


velvet_tongue_4u 70M

2/28/2006 10:50 am

Who cares ? Its the welling up of fluid that is such a turn on . I till now have never witnessed the phenomenom . As an insatible french gourmet it was one of my favorite fantasies . Oh well ! During the heat of sex ,I do luv the wetness of a woman , the taste of her saliva,and yes ; her pee .


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