Hmmm . . . Swinging and Sex . . .  

Terran_Nytefyer 40M/36F
2 posts
8/28/2006 6:39 pm

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8/29/2006 9:37 am

Hmmm . . . Swinging and Sex . . .

There are a lot of people in the world who are in the Swinging LifeStyle. There are also a lot of people who seem to find Swingers mentally unstable, unclean, or just plain sick. So much for them.

My gf and I have only been swinging for a couple of months now (just recently we've taken our relationship to a completely open level), and we've met some rather nice, fun, and polite people. We haven't really had a chance to have a bit of . . . fun, yet (due to circumstances beyond control); but we really enjoy the lifestyle, so far.

As much as we love each other, we don't always want to have sex with each other constantly. We DO want to explore and enjoy ourselves, and see where our experiences can take us. Also, the type of people we are, this lifestyle seems to suit us well. We're both open-minded, fun, curious, etc. Plus, we're both major flirts with naughty minds. We trust each other completely, and love each other unconditionally. We know whom the other comes home to. This has also greatly helped our relationship, as odd as that may sound. But do some research, a lot of marriage and relationship counselors are beginning to advocate a couple exploring their sexuality; either by swinging, bringing another person into the bedroom, toys, etc. Some of them don't, but a lot do.

In this lifestyle, my gf and I are able to discuss our limitations, our fears, and our fantasies without jealousy issues or fear.

My gf is a voyuer. Yes, she'll get involved and play, but she loves to watch me. This is a great turn-on for her. It's a turn on for me, too, knowing she's watching me and loving it. This is called 'fun'. lol

This is an aspect of our relationship that she enjoys exploring; and swinging has helped us try to explore that.

Another thing I've noticed is that, in the swinging lifestyle, regardless of what certain people may think (attention: naysayers), most swingers are pretty clean and careful. They get tested every couple of months, they advocate the use of protection, etc. Their morals may be a bit loose, but their minds are very open. Also, there are a great number of accepting, non-judgemental people in the lifestyle.

We're enjoying the few people we've met so far, and we're planning to continue this lifestyle for a while.

rm_PurryKitty2 48M/49F
9753 posts
8/28/2006 7:21 pm

Clean fun is the only fun!

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