|Blogs > TempleofMating > Female Orgasm|
Female Orgasm - Hailing Mysticwriter88
Female Orgasm - Hailing Mysticwriter88
I read the blog by Mysticwriter88 also titled "female orgasm" and was ecastatic! My experiences were validated. For decades I have been searching for other women who feel the same way as I do but I couldn't find any. I cannot even find language that describes how I feel.
I know I am different only because my lovers told me so. They told me my orgasms are much more powerful than other women's.
I have attached some of the text by Mysticwriter88 at the end of this page because for unknown reason the original text was removed from his blog.
Unlike Mysticwriter88, I don't practice or even know about Eastern religion or Yoga that has to do with sex, but I experience exactly what he is talking about, every time I have sex!
Mysticwriter88's claim that deep emotional connection is necessary was surprising to me at first but once I read it I realized it is true!! All of my lovers focus on getting me to orgasm, I mean really focus on it, to the point of surrendering their own physical gratification in the process, although they are all very satisfied in the end and are amazed by the sexual energy (This is not the wild humping and bumping, as Mysticwriter88 so rightfully put down in his blog) that I released. This energy is just that, pure energy, more like the kind that physicists study.
I do feel spiritual during orgasm but it has nothing to do with morality, beliefs, or anything voluntary. It is an experience that just descends upon me. It's not like a prayer that you initiate.
Some points I differ from Mysticwriter88:
(1) It is not necessary for the penis to thrust at all. It is more like a kneading action by the head of the penis on the cervix. Even when the penis is not completely hard, I could still orgasm. I do that by really focusing on the presence of the penis in me, the sensations of all of my muscles that surround the penis, and feel my love for the man. However, the following orgasm is not imagined or "willed" feeling. Orgasm descends upon me. I don't control it.
(2) Stimulating nipples alone can bring on uterine orgasm (due to secretion of oxytocin hormone), which feels like the bass of a musical band (while the presence of the penis in the virgina would make the orgasm feel like music played by a complete band).
(3) "Whole body" experience is not precise enough. More pertinent is that it is alters the brain state! During and after an orgasm, my brain feels like a circuit that is being fried! It feels like the penis has entered the brain and numbed it. There is no pain involved. It is an experience that is probably closest to being on drug (although I never used or need any pleasure drug). It gets me to "a different state" as my lovers observed me and decribe it to me. I really feel I go to the Heaven during orgasm. I don't mean just physically it feels good, but the brain is in such a state that I feel I have left this world phsyically! The brain recovers from this altered state gradually, usually it takes a whole day for the effect to dissipate.
Also, there are points not mentioned in Mysticwriter88's description:
(1) While I can scream before the orgasm, right after it takes place my vocal cord becomes immobilzed and I cannot talk for the next 10 min or so.
(2) I generally experience multiple orgasms, but it has nothing to do with what I or my lover does. The orgasms just descend upon me. I experience them like a roller coaster ride, not knowing when a peak is to take place or how it would feel until it happens.
Original text by Mysticwriter88
The Uterine Orgasm
The third and “rarest” of female orgasms is the uterine orgasm. Rare meaning: You have better odds of meeting Elvis then you do giving a woman a true uterine orgasm, and here is why…
The uterine orgasm is subjectively experienced as deeply emotional, involving no rhythmic contractions of the PC muscles. The measurable emotional changes that characterize the uterine orgasm involve emotional expression making sounds and the “apnea response”. This apnea response causes the larynx to temporarily suspend the breath during orgasm and then to exhale it “very” explosively, as occurs with other emotional reactions, such as laughing, sobbing, yawning, or screaming, providing the same release of tension. The uterine orgasm is dependent upon deep and rapid thrusts that jostle the cervix, which stimulates a large, sensitive membrane (called the peritoneum) which lines the abdomen and protects the organs of the abdomen and pelvic area, including the uterus. The uterine orgasm is most frequently a single deeply satiating orgasm. (Not achieved numerous times like the clitoral or blended orgasm can be).
Many women rarely (if ever) experience this type of orgasm because it requires a very deep emotional connection to your partner. This rare and powerful connection normally results in both emotional and physical arousal instead of just physical arousal like most people first experience. This increased arousal added with deep penetration helps create waves of pleasure that eventually causes the uterus to contract. If the uterus does not contract, then it is “not” a uterine orgasm.
Due to the increasingly high numbers of men and women sleeping around it has lowered the number of women who achieve this very powerful and rare level of orgasm. The uterine orgasm normally takes place from “tantric” sex styles like extended massive orgasms or kama-sutra. The foundation is being “the art of making love”. The art of making love is about passion and desire; porn-star style sex is about lust and desire. It is easy to be passionate with someone even if you have just met him or her, the trick being to “not” allow yourself to be rushed. Rushed sex and aggression not only leads to possible low leveled orgasms but also is the number one factor that causes men to ejaculate early or to pre-maturely ejaculate altogether. Self-control is a very serious and important thing when it comes to high levels of orgasm.
Fast, rough, or hard sex results in increased tension. With a woman this increased tension can result in involuntary tightening of the vaginal muscles creating impossibility for a uterine orgasm to take place. As mentioned above, when it comes to men this increased tension can cause pre-mature or early ejaculation. While the uterine orgasm is only known by being achieved through deep, rapid thrusts, these thrusts are of a considerably more gentle nature then most young people or porn-stars use.
Because of the sexual actions of many people in today’s society, it has been proven that less then 10% of the female population ever at any point in time achieve a true uterine orgasm. Is there a possible medical cure or sex technique in the works to help women achieve this orgasm more regularly? Very few people can truly understand the sexual response cycles of males and females. It is slightly possible that someone may come along some day that can create such a technique. However, there is one more unknown issue that revolves around the uterine orgasm.
Both the 10th and 12th nerves, hypoglossal and the vagus nerve, originate in the gray matter of the fourth ventricle of the medulla oblongata area of the brain stem. The medulla oblongata has virtually unchanged since the Neanderthal’s and it controls sensory and motor skills, as well as our basic instincts for fleeing, fighting, feeding, and sexual pleasure. The cerebral cortex, in contrast, makes up the majority of the brain and controls fantasy, imagining, dreaming, and perhaps even consciousness. It is far less understood and well mapped then our medulla oblongata and other nerve centers of the “lower” brain or brain stem. However, it is well known that orgasms can take place without any sensory stimulation, as in dreams, and, for some individuals, through fantasy or the buildup of erotic energy are also fueled by this more mysterious, and far less instinctual, part of the human brain.
Clearly there is much more to learn about sexuality and this area of the brain. If the sexual, pelvic nerves connect to this area in the brain where scientists may one day find that consciousness resides, then one can barely fathom the potential for the untapped power source that is our sexual energy and pleasure.
What does all that mean? Doctors, researchers, scientists, have no idea what exactly triggers the deep sexual responses that result from the uterine orgasm. It is believed that the answers are contained within this unknown part of the brain.
Overall, the real truth of the matter is that we will have invented warp drive before most (if any) women get to find the answers to this tremendously powerful orgasm. Unless we have a sex therapist of scientist like Einstein who can make sense of this stuff, then all hope of answers is lost.
I do not start my sexology studies till this fall, but if my analysis is correct then the hidden truth to the first step of the uterine orgasm is stimulation of the breast and not the vagina. If we look at breast-feeding we will see that by doing it women have reported numerous times they experience mild uterine contractions throughout the feeding time. Those uterine contractions are what help the uterus to contract back to its normal size after childbirth. This is not surprising since the breasts are directly connected to the uterus. The vagina is the negative effect of the female sexual response cycle because it is the only vent for the body. Vibrations sent into the breast travel down into the uterus, past the cervix, and out through the vagina. Vibrations sent into the vagina through the vagina normally hit and bounce off the cervix and flow back out of the vagina therefore never getting the chance to travel through the uterus. According to most tantric sex styles they believe what I also believe, and that is that the breasts are actually the center of female orgasms and not the clitoris or g-spot like many American doctors and scientists believe. Even according to American doctors initial arousal for women is achieved by breast stimulation, once the nipples become erect it then starts to get the rest of her motor and sexual functions to kick in which then results in the lubrication of the vagina.
All those factors combined issue that my theory of uterine orgasms and the epicenter of which it comes from are more accurate then anything else known. The breasts are a seriously important factor in female arousal and female orgasm as well. In due time we may find a technique to support this theory, but that as I said earlier, is decades away from happening (maybe even centuries).
You women know this better then any of us men... Results claim these orgasms to be so rare that it is not even funny. The few of you who have actually experienced these orgasms... Would you say it was more then just about the physical penetration and involved a emotional and sensual aspect as well?