Hey folks......  

Tejinashi 45M
34 posts
11/21/2005 8:42 am

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3/31/2006 12:21 am

Hey folks......

Well, I hardly ever get around to up-dating this thing (which, I admitted to in my first post if you read it).

I never know what to say, how to express what I'm thiking, or what people might want to hear. If I could figure out what people wanted to hear my social life would be far more....ahem....productive.

So, I sit here trying to think of an update of some sort that wouldn't bore people out of their minds, and might even get someone to reply. Without replies, there ain't much point to this kind of thing because until I can get my account upgraded there is no real other way for me to contact anyone. It would seem, that the London Swinger group has simply become a classified adds section (which, I figured the search function suited just fine).

I realize that the site is intended for such 'hook-ups' but it was (at least when I joined) quite a nice place to simply find a conversational thread and join in. I'm getting tired of people not reading posts, and responding to them out of what the thought they read. How many times has anyone here read erplies from single guys on threads that were looking for couples or women ?

Some people can't see beyond the ends of their own noses it seems.

Speaking of which - tis the season again....

The season to think of your fellow people on this planet and be kind, considerate, and thankfull for the world we live in.

On those points I have a couple simple requests from the retail side of the season;
1)If you feel that you MUST stop and talk in a group of people, DO NOT do it in the middle of an aisle/hall/intersection. Move out of the way.
2)Please try to remember that while you may be rushing to get your shopping done and be frustrated by it, the sales person you might be trampling on the nerves of have probably dealt with 30-50+ people in the day (and that would be a small niche store). They are WAY more fried then you (more likely), and will be lucky to get enough time before the holidays to sit down, let alone get there own shopping down.
3)This is the season for the fellow people, not your own personal needs. If the person (likely a kid) 'won't love you anymore' unless they get a certain gift......well NEWS FOR YOU - they don't love you already if they are using it as a bribe for attention. You can't buy emotional commitment.

Yes, you could say I'm rather bitter about the x-mas season.

I'd apologize to people that like it, but I really don't care. Honesty rocks my world now. I'm done with the complete lack of understanding that is the spirit of this season.

Besides....if you like someone, (not necesarily as anything other then a friend even) should you need a reason to simply give them something that you saw and reminded you of them ?

You'd be surprised how much even something a simple as a donut, or cup of coffee ( only Tim Horton's counts for most canucks ) can put a smile on thier face and raise their mood.

Try it sometime. Open a door for someone, offer your seat on a crowded bus, give up your table at the food court if your almost done, try inconvenienceing yourself a tiny bit to see how much it improves some other persons' day. You might not ever even know how much it could make a difference.

But, in the end, when you're lying in the cold sterile dark of the night and Morpheus approaches the edges of your mind, how often would you like to have a smile based on something nice some complete stranger did for you in the day ?

Like the old saying - practice random acts of kindness.

Wow.....looking back over my text, I geuss I did have a lot to say.

Go figure. I'll go back to being quiet again for awhile now....it seems the world is happier when I simpy observe, and not actually try to change anything to drastic. After all, that only hurts others and then myself as a consequence.

But that's a topic for another day. WHen I figure out how to put it not into words, but into text....


BbbiBabyGirl 46F

12/23/2005 10:57 am

Best of the SHITTY Season. I like your thinking. So on that note, when would you like to go for coffee, or even a bite (ohhh a bite or two...umh) out...my treat.

Tejinashi 45M

1/6/2006 1:00 pm

a bite.....definately an idea that was worth taking you up on.

Have you developed an appreciaion for the 'darker' side now ?

( and no, I am NOT a vampire....sheesh )

whiterussianluvr 48M/40F

1/8/2006 2:32 am

your a tortured soul buddy.lighten up a little.i guess thats why you got the head in hand.if your after the profound/sublime theres an infinite number of places to find it other then a site thats largely base in nature.like its a big surprise that men and women are self-absorbed here,its the internet after all.the realm of shameless self promoters

Tejinashi 45M

1/10/2006 12:43 am

True enough. Perhaps I have been morose and and tortured for a little while too long.

Thing is, and I have witnesses to this - I carry it well. I'm the kind of guy that when I smile people wonder who died.

(insert shrug)

I honestly do believe in the better part of humanity, and that is the irony of it all. I cheer for the underdog every day of my life.

Besides, what's wrong with the darker side ?

BbbiBabyGirl 46F

2/10/2006 1:10 pm

Anakin found the dark side appealing for quite along time.
And u know what I think concerning your smile. You have a great one and should do it more. But who am I to speak? I have a biasised (omg i can't spell) opinion

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