First entry  

Tejinashi 45M
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8/6/2005 11:39 pm

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First entry

Well folks, here it is - the blog a couple people suggested I should post.

No clue on a topic yet but eventually my rambling makes sense to someone.

So, in an strained effort to get a couple replies I pose a question:
"What is it that people truly search for?"

I mean, is it someone to f**k, to hold, make laugh or share your life with ? There's alot to choose from - but if you had to choose ONE thing what would it be ?

Oh, and a couple other things.

I'll be honest with people up front: One word answers pi** me off. It's the simple case of if you have something to say, say it. People on Dial-up (yes, there are some in.....)don't need to wait 5 minutes to see three or four screens of 'yeah','me too','rock on',or 'I'm an brainless f*** who doesn't want to say anything important but I wouldn't mind getting my post count raised'.

If you're going to be brainless, go throw on a Mansion or Green Day shirt like the rest of the zombies and don't bother me. I have a feeling I'll be asking people to think fairly often, and if you're wearing band/celeb/sports memorabilia because everyone else does then you probably don't like thinking anyway. If you doubt this opinion go walk around a mall or a downtown and watch for the uniforms....I'll explain those another time (and no, I don't mean the cops).

Yeah, I know. People thinking on a site intended for hooking up. Hell, I think there are more smart people out there then alot of the 'cool' people are comfortable with and as such would like to get them to fly some colours, jump, wave their arms in the air like they just don't care, party like its 1999(oops...old reference...sorry).

Well - anyone want to think or make others think ?

Come on folks. If getting off is all you wanted out of life, that's easily handled (scuze the pun). This site is about interaction between adults.

Adults think. Or at least, we're supposed to be able to.




I dare you.

P.S. -> rememeber,"Starting or allowing arguments which escalate into threats, harassment, or violence. Feel free to argue and defend your opinions, but keep it civil. " is in the limiters. So play nice or the toys get put away.

BbbiBabyGirl 46F

8/7/2005 2:22 pm

Well, I agree......

Seriously, a real comment. Thinking is good for the mind, so exercise it. To answer the question "what are u truely looking for on here".....its human interaction. Its a kinda joining that makes u feel alive. If it was just to get off then hands and toys work just fine. Its not the same....society in general need human contact/interaction/bonding or else we'd just curl-up and die emotionally/mentally/physically and yes even spiritually (no matter what bielf sys you have). Bottom line: we need human interaction to feel alive and whole.

NewJackSwing 43M

8/8/2005 11:36 pm

I will be honest and tell you that I had no expectations really when I joined. Truth be told it was meant to expand my social circle really and if sex happens .. that's ok .. I mean I WANT to learn things, I'd be lying if I didn't admit that portion. But in all honesty, it was about meeting people, getting out there and living.

Just like BiBi said, we all crave interaction in some capacity or another or else we would go nuts for sure and I am no different as well. I like to be touched, be held, to feel liked or even loved .. I am human as well .. so are we all and there's no harm in that. In the end though with AdultFriendFinder I have met some very cool people (you know who you are! *looks at the two names above me*)and even reunited with an old school friend (weird I know!) from Grades 10-11.

I must say thank you to AdultFriendFinder for opening my life to new things and directions. I look forward to more room to grow through here and to even hopefully met all those I have been in contact with.

You challenge has been met Ten!

BbbiBabyGirl 46F

8/9/2005 4:21 pm

I think everyone on AdultFriendFinder is here searching for something. Something more than just someone to fill the void in their life. They need to fill a missing part of themselves. It is a self discovery and a need to feel whole.
IS the glass half empty or half full. It doesn't matter, either way there is room to add more, because there is a void inside.

Tejinashi 45M

8/9/2005 6:22 pm

I was wondering if you guys would bother with my ramblings.

Nice to know that someone(s) out there want to think. Is every one else just a glorified animal looking for sex ?

Not that I'm not looking for sex - anyone who says they aren't is lying in my books.

Opening up your life by going onto websites like this is good. Glad to hear NewJack. Running into old friends though would be a little weird for me.

Part of the fun to this site, and to my life in the past couple months has been the ability to reinvent yourself, or at least realize who you are (or, in my case - who you have been surpressing and denying).

Challenge met, received and returned. Ball in your half of the court fellow AdultFriendFinder'ers.


BbbiBabyGirl 46F

8/9/2005 10:15 pm

I have also met an old highschool friend through the site.....he use to bug me and tease me...I didn't think he liked me....turns out he wanted to date me......go figure

NewJackSwing 43M

8/9/2005 11:30 pm

Tej - You're right .. self realization .. great word and term to use. I believe I am realizing things as well about how much I never had the chance to experience as well. Hopefully through here I will be able to experience what was potentially denied (if I can say that .. then again I am kinda hazy right now .. amazing what two beers can do to a non drinker) to me.

Hopefully I will continue to experience new things and meet new and interesting people. It's been a joy thus far and I look forward to ahead and not backwards.

Reinvent ... good word again .. I would be able to try and explain how I have reinvented myself but I can't quite think that heavily given my current state of .. inehbriation?

Sure .. I will go with that!

My side of the court now? .. VOLLEY!

Tejinashi 45M

8/11/2005 2:11 am

You know, tennis was never my strong point.

Unless you wanted 10+ balls on the roof of whatever building was nearby.....

Re-invention and self-actualization are important concepts....ohhh...feel a new main topic.

Hold those thoughts.


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