Good sex, what is it?  

TehTigerLily 31F
45 posts
7/10/2005 12:15 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Good sex, what is it?

Ive had a lot of people tell me what sex should be like. Some tell me that the male should always make the girl cum first and then the guys turn. Ive heard that the guy should cum first, then the girl. Dunno, girls are lucky if they cum, etc..

To me good sex, is if I have a good time. If it felt good to me, and I know the guy enjoyed himself, then thats good sex to me. I dont need to cum everytime, sometimes it doesnt work out that way, and the sex may be amazing, but the orgasm is just not there, and that doesnt bother me at all.

If Ive left marks on my guys back and brusies on his chest, then Ive had a really fucking good time. If Ive laughed, kissed and moaned his name more times than I can count, then shit, it was fun.

And when you start having sex with someone new, dont pull out the kinky shit, unless you are both agreed on it.. Nuthin scares me more than a guy pullin out his paddle on the first night we have sex.. or his chains and

Anyways, I know sum people dont agree. Ive had meaningful sex, and then just fuck me sex. So it depends on who you are, just thought I would write about my feelings on it. Of course sum of you may agree, and others may not, its up to you.

Now I think Ill go skinny dipping, have a good day!

*kisses and blowjobs*

rm_qcao1 48F
197 posts
7/10/2005 9:08 pm

Definition of "good sex" would be different for every person.

To me "good sex” is a beautiful experience which makes me smile all day long next day, next week, and anytime I think back to the moment.

Sensuality is very important in my case. Sensuality to me is the whole package: the touch, the look, the kiss….

volcanoinu23 52M

7/10/2005 10:04 pm

Ya, there is no doubt that I hate "Blue Balls". I have had them a few times lately, but it is pretty my my fault. I have been around a host of beautiful, sexy women who have tried to get me off multiple times in a single evening.

The excitment of being with a woman, who is excited to be with me is good sex. I will do everything I can to get a woman to orgamsm, and there is not much more frustration then when I can't. They have my focus for as long as it takes.


wellhungtongue69 52M

7/13/2005 7:02 am

Awesome sex is where both partners discuss and share their desires and needs upfront and then do the best to achieve them. So, again, awesome sex is mostly about honesty with each other

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