Watch what you say!  

Teddy022 59F
112 posts
11/28/2005 8:14 pm

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Watch what you say!

I am chuckling to myself right now, after listening to what is being said behind my back. How funny that people don't realize that what they say in public chatrooms, gets back to those individuals they are talking about. Funny how two-faced these folks have become also.

If you are so tired of the Karaoke on Friday and Saturday nights, then plan a different venue! Nobody is twisting your arm or blackmailing you into going to Chatters. You know who you are, because you have said this in the Mt Zone room recently...and I know who you are.

I have not "officially" planned any type of Meet and Greet in Casper for months now. I do, however, go to my local bar to meet my friends that do like to Karaoke on most every Friday and Saturday night. I don't always know when I am going to be there, so when I do know, I post it in the group, for those that DO like to karaoke can come out. I keep them open for anyone that wants to come. In fact, I have not had a "Teddy Bear" on the table for quite a while, so that it cannot be confused with an "official" M&G. Many of the folks we are with during those evenings aren't even members of A F F. We just like to have fun!

I have not seen any other meet and greets planned, so I guess for the new folks, that want to meet some of us, if they want to come to Chatters they may. But I am not "making" them go.

Now as for being upset that people might have gone to another town to a M&G, how ludicris! How would I know you were going or that you were there? Do I care? Hell no! I think its great when other folks host M&G's, because personally, I don't want to anymore. But, I don't appreciate being talked about in a chatroom, that I was upset about someone going there. That I can't control where they go...you are absolutely right. And I have no intentions of EVER telling people where they should go and when. That is sooooo damn petty.

Do people have nothing else to do but to talk about me and others in the chatroom? To complain that they are tired of going to the same places for the meet and greets? To say that I am always making them go to Chatters? LMAO! Too funny!

But then the best part is when they see you face to face and give you hugs and kisses like nothing was ever said. Well, I am not going to throw this in your face because I think it is too petty, but don't think that I will trust you as a friend anymore. Friends don't shit on others to gain popularity or recognition of some sort. Friends are there through thick and thin, no matter what is being said. So I guess I now know who my REAL friends are.

Teddy


Teddy


widwestcpl 61M/60F
16 posts
11/29/2005 6:22 pm

You hit the nail right on the head. Know exactly what you are feeling because this has also happened to us. Too bad the ones saying stuff aren't big enough to say it to your face and get it smoothed out but oh well. We also know who our friends are and they are most trusted, the others are aquaintences and will stay such. We have no problem with going to visit everyone and listen to the singing. There are some wonderful singers out there and they are great to listen to. No we don't always go there but we try at least every other weekend and it sure breaks up the week of stress. But hey, new group, new times. Thanks Teddy for putting our thoughts on paper to. Seems we have been feeling much the same. Way to go Girl!!! Sorry if this posted again..lol I don't think it went through before..lol


redbarroness 60F

12/20/2005 2:13 pm

ABSOLUTELY AWESOME RESPONSE TEDDY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I have said this many time before and will continue to--FRIENDS WORK THING OUT AND DON'T BAIL WHEN IT GETS TOUGH--END OF STORY.

THANK YOU TEDDY!!!!!


rm_Bct2Esi 51M/50F
1375 posts
12/28/2005 9:58 am

thank you for saying once again, what I have tried to post in our groups and have been called wonderful names because of it? go figure,

Thanks once again, now if we could only get others to read this, it might help? what do you think?

thanks for you
hugs and smiles


FlowsExertHairs 49M
16 posts
2/21/2006 10:42 pm

well i have too agree with you teddy.I don't know what was going on but if people are tired of something there the ones who need too fix the problem. without the stabing in the back crap.

jim


FlowsExertHairs 49M
16 posts
2/23/2006 12:05 am

sorry had too put my 2 cents in lol glad you didnt close the group

jim


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