If someone accused you of having fake pics on your profile, what would you do ?  

TechSteve 49M
1222 posts
6/25/2006 11:00 am

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7/8/2006 12:47 pm

If someone accused you of having fake pics on your profile, what would you do ?

A while ago, a female member who contributes in the blogs and in the magazine, made an offer to any member that doubted she was real that she would go on webcam to prove it. What set it off was somebody making a comment in the advice lines about her. She didnt go on and on insisting she was real. She nipped it in the bud. I think she is genuine if it matters to anyone out there.

I noticed for a while now a female member whining that she has been accused for many months that she has phony pics. The pics are always headless pics of her wearing a bathing suit. You can see the pic on the group home page.

If this bothered you so much, wouldnt you make the offer to put the matter to rest or would you continue whining about it ?

I have an open mind at the moment, but all the behavior I saw over the last few months does not make me think the person is truthful, in my opinion. All I see is somebody insisting they are real and a bunch of guys stroking the individual. I am not saying those guys are dumb, but many of them are not using their big heads. Many of them will do anything to feel good, so it doesnt matter if it is an ugly guy with a beer belly who is behind a profile with the example pic I have displayed here.

Another thing I see repeated is the word JEALOUSY. It has nothing to do with it.

People on this site dont like phony attention whores.

You are insulting their intelligence. People dont like that.

Steve


meerkittykat 42F

6/25/2006 11:34 am

I guess I don't care if the population en-masse thinks I'm phony. There are a couple people who know me and know I'm real, and those are the ones who's opinions matter to me. If I put a bunch of stock into what people I've never met from a website thought of me, then someone might as take me out back and shoot me, cos I think that's a miserable way to live your life.

But that's just me.


007sexy40plus 50F  
7603 posts
6/25/2006 11:40 am

I got accused of stealing a white woman's pics. So I invited people to look into my network albums to see the face attached to the same headless body pics that was on profile. Not just with one pose but with many and with clothes and some without(none totally nude) I don't really have to prove what I am or who I am to anyone but when it comes to people accusing me of stealing a white woman's pics, I take care of it. I don't have to steal pics of white women or black ones, I love how I look. I have about 2,000 photos in my gallery on my computer, and proof that they are mine and I am the subject in them.

There are ways to keep people from thinking you are a fake. but when you get accused over and over and you do nothing to prove yourself and only whine about being called a fake, then perhaps you are using fake photos that belong to someone else, if not then do something about it. That is just my take on it.

nice post.

btw, I love leaving people with egg on their face after they have falsely accused me of doing something wrong.

I am the real deal! "Come Get Me!!!"


TechSteve 49M

6/26/2006 10:15 am

    Quoting meerkittykat:
    I guess I don't care if the population en-masse thinks I'm phony. There are a couple people who know me and know I'm real, and those are the ones who's opinions matter to me. If I put a bunch of stock into what people I've never met from a website thought of me, then someone might as take me out back and shoot me, cos I think that's a miserable way to live your life.

    But that's just me.
Thank you for your opinion Meerkitty.

Steve


TechSteve 49M

6/26/2006 10:22 am

    Quoting 007sexy40plus:
    I got accused of stealing a white woman's pics. So I invited people to look into my network albums to see the face attached to the same headless body pics that was on profile. Not just with one pose but with many and with clothes and some without(none totally nude) I don't really have to prove what I am or who I am to anyone but when it comes to people accusing me of stealing a white woman's pics, I take care of it. I don't have to steal pics of white women or black ones, I love how I look. I have about 2,000 photos in my gallery on my computer, and proof that they are mine and I am the subject in them.

    There are ways to keep people from thinking you are a fake. but when you get accused over and over and you do nothing to prove yourself and only whine about being called a fake, then perhaps you are using fake photos that belong to someone else, if not then do something about it. That is just my take on it.

    nice post.

    btw, I love leaving people with egg on their face after they have falsely accused me of doing something wrong.
I think it is great that you put it to rest.

You didnt have to do that.

Steve


TechSteve 49M

6/26/2006 10:32 am

    Quoting Kofla_:
    Steve, I think the reason this person is being accused using fake pics is because last year I believe she did have pictures that did not resemble the current ones. For people who are out there playing in groups with no hope of ever meeting anyone it will be extremely hard to prove is not them, unless they forgot that they early on posted their own real pics. Besides, the majority of those pics with perfect lighting, no shadows, no imperfections, are 95% of the time fakes.
I think I remember a time when she had another profile and she did post her own pics. I remember a boob shot and a partial face photo. It was so long ago.

I think her male friend is phony too. He looks like he has a body of a guy who spends hrs in the gym.......yeah right haha.

They are both insecure.....maybe they are the same person.

They can both post phony pics, but in this place, you cannot simulate brains.

Steve


themisskrissy 56F
2302 posts
6/28/2006 6:11 pm

my pics are real, and if you think they are not kiss my ass........simple... that is how i look at it.. i have nothing to prove to anyone on this, or any other site..

Virtue Alone Ennobles


SensuousWoman3 55F
3106 posts
6/29/2006 1:39 pm

I think there is something to be said for “thou does protest too much.”

Personally, I would not worry too much about being accused of being a fake---either someone believes me, or they don’t, and I don’t even have a picture posted. However, enough members around here have seen pictures of me–non-professionally photographed shots–to verify who I am. End of story. No whining.

As far as people insisting those pictures are real---it’s the Barnum Theory---there’s a sucker born every minute. If the photos of which you speak are anything like the one you have posted, it’s a fake. That is professionally shot. The lighting is perfect, her hands are expertly choreographed, she is probably wearing body makeup and you can tell a body glistner has been applied. It’s probably been airbrushed as well. Even Cindy Crawford is airbrushed.

You’re right, Steve. You can fool some of the people some of the time, but not all of the people all of the time. People are not stupid.


curvymeli 39F

6/30/2006 5:30 pm

I think if she can't or doesn't want to try and do something to prove the goods are golden then she should quit complaining about what people are saying.

Most people, when secure in their station, just let others talk shit and don't let it phase them. I am not sure to whom you refer, but I am in agreement with the skeptics; if she's real she shouldn't have a problem proving it, or she would be comfortable telling everyone to fuck off and not address the issue any more.


bamaplaytoy069 54M
66 posts
7/1/2006 8:59 pm

if you really want to see if a persons real or not ask them to turn there webcam on ,just as you turn your on..i am not going to so call prove to someone that i am real, just for there viewing...but if i actually meet someone i am interested in by what they have writtin on there profile and after we have talked awhile i will show them what i look like on webcam if they have one..i never look at pics on here and totally believe that they are actually that person..i look more at the profile first..if i want to know what they look like i will do that by webcam..if they say they don't have one...just move on


phoenix639 49F

7/2/2006 3:36 am

I think youre referring to me arent you over the offer to go on cam to prove im real.

Just stumbled on your blog & saw this.

Do you know not one single accuser took me up on my offer. Speaks volumes doesnt it.

I am still more than willing to show my mug on cam.

Its funny as i blogged yesterday about an idiot who wanted me to send him clothed photos to prove i am the person in the photo.

The only photo i now have on my profile is my arse.

If it is me youre speaking of over the cam proof...thank you for your kind words hun. If its not ooops...my face is red.


TechSteve 49M

7/2/2006 6:43 am

    Quoting phoenix639:
    I think youre referring to me arent you over the offer to go on cam to prove im real.

    Just stumbled on your blog & saw this.

    Do you know not one single accuser took me up on my offer. Speaks volumes doesnt it.

    I am still more than willing to show my mug on cam.

    Its funny as i blogged yesterday about an idiot who wanted me to send him clothed photos to prove i am the person in the photo.

    The only photo i now have on my profile is my arse.

    If it is me youre speaking of over the cam proof...thank you for your kind words hun. If its not ooops...my face is red.
Yes I am talking about you Phoenix.

It is a very beautiful 'arse'. I prefer the word BUM or ASS. But I know the english prefer ARSE.

Thank you all for your comments.

I am more concerned with false information than the pics on a profile.

I met ladies without pics in the past.

Steve


phoenix639 49F

7/2/2006 9:08 am

    Quoting TechSteve:
    Yes I am talking about you Phoenix.

    It is a very beautiful 'arse'. I prefer the word BUM or ASS. But I know the english prefer ARSE.

    Thank you all for your comments.

    I am more concerned with false information than the pics on a profile.

    I met ladies without pics in the past.

    Steve
I now what you mean.

When i was up for meeting men one man insisted he had clicked smoker by mistake & didnt actually smoke. We met for a drink...he reeked of smoke. I left.

Another told me he is 5'10" (i prefer men taller than me you see) i met him he was about 5'5" if that.

Another said he was single....tell tale tan line on his ring finger!!

A couple had photos way out of date.

But the best...one man wasnt the person in the photo displayed. It was of his friend...he said he didnt think women would meet him if he used his own pic. He didnt understand why i wouldnt stay. He got quite nasty about it too.

Ive met some lovely people too thankfully.

Everyone ive met though ive chatted to lots online & also on the phone, so to be lied to is a huge let down. Especially when you feel you have built up a nice friendship & at any point that person could of been honest with me.


TechSteve 49M

7/8/2006 12:47 pm

    Quoting phoenix639:
    I now what you mean.

    When i was up for meeting men one man insisted he had clicked smoker by mistake & didnt actually smoke. We met for a drink...he reeked of smoke. I left.

    Another told me he is 5'10" (i prefer men taller than me you see) i met him he was about 5'5" if that.

    Another said he was single....tell tale tan line on his ring finger!!

    A couple had photos way out of date.

    But the best...one man wasnt the person in the photo displayed. It was of his friend...he said he didnt think women would meet him if he used his own pic. He didnt understand why i wouldnt stay. He got quite nasty about it too.

    Ive met some lovely people too thankfully.

    Everyone ive met though ive chatted to lots online & also on the phone, so to be lied to is a huge let down. Especially when you feel you have built up a nice friendship & at any point that person could of been honest with me.
Thank you Phoenix for those examples.

The ones that lie about their appearance (height) or whether they smoke or not.......I dont know what they are thinking

They think the ladies are stupid and that your preferences mean nothing.

These guys will do anything to get laid.

It is a good idea that you walk away. They proved that they have no respect for you.

Steve


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