I am upset..........somebody told me a woman I know online may be a phony.  

TechSteve 49M
1222 posts
6/27/2006 9:12 am

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I am upset..........somebody told me a woman I know online may be a phony.

There is this woman I met online a few months ago who lives a couple of hrs away from me who may be fabricating stuff in order to get attention.

I believe she is truthful about where she lives and about her looks ( I saw pics and other people I know online have met her). The only thing I did with her is chat.

She has said she travelled all over the world for work..makes good money....is educated....has a sick daughter and a son that died at birth...a violent ex....etc etc

I have been suspicious for a long time, but I didnt want to believe it.

If some of what she says is a load of bullshit, I find that sad....I dont understand these people...

Steve

The pic to your left is of me and my friends playing with my pet GREAT WHITE SHARK. He is named Maneater.


HeartlessBitch69 46F

6/27/2006 10:36 am

But if she is not making it up, and you confront her, you may have wrecked a good thing.

Let me tell you steve, I could tell you stories about my life that would make you question if shit like that could really happen to someone.

Do not ever believe what others tell you. Find out for yourself. I hope she is not being untruthful.


amoldenough 70F
16436 posts
6/27/2006 10:43 am

Steve--I am sorry that you had to have this experience. Always go with your instincts. If something is too good to be true, it usually is. It's sad that people think that they are not good enough if they are honest. Or maybe they just enjoy making others miserable. It's good that you found out before you became too involved.

"Don't cry because it's over; smile because it happened."


TechSteve 49M

6/27/2006 11:17 am

    Quoting HeartlessBitch69:
    But if she is not making it up, and you confront her, you may have wrecked a good thing.

    Let me tell you steve, I could tell you stories about my life that would make you question if shit like that could really happen to someone.

    Do not ever believe what others tell you. Find out for yourself. I hope she is not being untruthful.
I am not going to confront her.

I have no solid proof that she is not telling me the truth.

There is nothing for me to gain.

Thank you for the advice.


TechSteve 49M

6/27/2006 11:39 am

    Quoting amoldenough:
    Steve--I am sorry that you had to have this experience. Always go with your instincts. If something is too good to be true, it usually is. It's sad that people think that they are not good enough if they are honest. Or maybe they just enjoy making others miserable. It's good that you found out before you became too involved.
If she is not being truthful, I dont think the motive is to make others miserable.

I will see what happens.

Steve


rm_romanticlvr2 43M

6/27/2006 7:33 pm

Good evening...I myself believe that people can't always be thruthful but if in my mind you have chatted with her for sometime and have seen her, Then I would believe the ladies story...
I myself Have a Lady friend who sounds like the lady you are talking about..Actually too much of a coincidence...If we are talking about the same Lady Which her name is nancy,,,Then you are mistaken.
Nancy is not a liar and is a good hearted person. I met her a year ago and have driven her to appointment for her daughter and have travelled with her too many places, But if we aren't talking about the same person ,Then my apoligies.
But you should never believe other peoples stories ....I feel bad for what some are saying about my new dear friend and I myself feel disgusted if her name would be dragged into mud...But i do like your idea of blogs Cameron


rm_nopms 57F

6/27/2006 8:26 pm

We must remember that people have feelings even online. Facts are always best to be checked first before dragging peoples names in the mud like romanticlvr2 mentioned.

A chance we all take that is why it is best to get to know the person before commenting.
Pat


TechSteve 49M

6/27/2006 9:24 pm

As I have mentioned before, I am not going to confront her.

I am not going to organize people against her.

I dont think she is a bad person.

I think she is very sincere when she says she wants to be loved.

I think she is a very sad and lonely woman.

Steve


rm_nopms 57F

6/27/2006 10:52 pm

Well don't think that she has lots of people who care for her.
And this should stop soon.


themisskrissy 56F
2302 posts
6/28/2006 12:59 am

if you have no plans to pursue anything serious with her, take her at face value..

that is all we can do.. unless you want to investigate her..

the amount of lying and deception and outright pettiness i see here continues to astound me..

i was recently "fried" for smoke and mirrors bullshit.. when what i really think is some cow got a case of the green eyed monster cuz i was pulling in the lions share of attention in a chat room...
and the final straw was a guy she was heavy breathing over left the room to go chat with me off site.. but that is purely speculative..


Virtue Alone Ennobles


rm_romanticlvr2 43M

6/28/2006 5:05 am

Well Obviously we are talking about the same lady, Now I don't know who said these things about her, But she is my good friend.
I have worked with her many times and trust me she is who she sez she is, Whether you believe anyones story, Thats your problem and this slander could be taken the wrong way and action taken to stop it. My friend is far from being lonely, She has many friends and some good kids that love her, So lonely she isn't.
As for being sad that she is and you would also if you had a daughter witrh mental problems and have been trying to get her help for many years. She finally has recieve some good people to help her out with situation, But coming out here and seeing what you wrote , was absolutly hurtful and uncalled for . Where do you get the right to judge another human being like this, When it could be done by you.
I myself wouldn't want a Man or woman complete strangers that don't really know a person to accuse anyone of being what they are not and thats what your doing here...You folks are unblieveable in assuming what you don't know, Get a life ...What type of site is this ?
Though for myself you all have the right to say what you want..But first of all don't hurt people intentionally, It makes you look bad.


TechSteve 49M

6/28/2006 5:49 am

    Quoting themisskrissy:
    if you have no plans to pursue anything serious with her, take her at face value..

    that is all we can do.. unless you want to investigate her..

    the amount of lying and deception and outright pettiness i see here continues to astound me..

    i was recently "fried" for smoke and mirrors bullshit.. when what i really think is some cow got a case of the green eyed monster cuz i was pulling in the lions share of attention in a chat room...
    and the final straw was a guy she was heavy breathing over left the room to go chat with me off site.. but that is purely speculative..
Miss Krissy, I agree with you.

I never would think that women on this site would get jealous of each other, but it happens. Most of the stories I hear about occur in the chatrooms in various parts of the site.

Steve


TechSteve 49M

6/28/2006 7:29 am

    Quoting rm_romanticlvr2:
    Well Obviously we are talking about the same lady, Now I don't know who said these things about her, But she is my good friend.
    I have worked with her many times and trust me she is who she sez she is, Whether you believe anyones story, Thats your problem and this slander could be taken the wrong way and action taken to stop it. My friend is far from being lonely, She has many friends and some good kids that love her, So lonely she isn't.
    As for being sad that she is and you would also if you had a daughter witrh mental problems and have been trying to get her help for many years. She finally has recieve some good people to help her out with situation, But coming out here and seeing what you wrote , was absolutly hurtful and uncalled for . Where do you get the right to judge another human being like this, When it could be done by you.
    I myself wouldn't want a Man or woman complete strangers that don't really know a person to accuse anyone of being what they are not and thats what your doing here...You folks are unblieveable in assuming what you don't know, Get a life ...What type of site is this ?
    Though for myself you all have the right to say what you want..But first of all don't hurt people intentionally, It makes you look bad.
I have been on the net for many yrs.

I have been on this site for a while.

I am not an idiot.

There is no slander here. Dont even try to pull that kind of crap on me. I know that something stinks here.

Dont think I didnt notice that you and your friend, NOPMS, decided to pop your cherry in my blog. ....2 different people who are NEW to the Torontobbw group and AdultFriendFinder........a group I havent posted in for over a month comes to my blog for the first time and decides to comment in this topic and assume it is about their friend.....

All I see in front of me are two profiles with no pics.

I DONT KNOW YOU. There is no history. You two popped out of nowhere so I cannot even check the both of you out.

But the people I talk to, who I am sure you know, have a history with me. I will take their word for it over your word anyday unless I am proven wrong.

Your comment about me looking 'BAD was a load of bullshit.

I allowed you to comment here. You even insulted me. I am not going to delete any of it. I am not going to ban you either.

Can you say the same about the moderator in that group you just joined ?

Steve


rm_romanticlvr2 43M

6/28/2006 11:08 am

Please delete me...Ban me .. Ban and delete who cares, if your going to be this childish then what amd i suppose to do cry or something.
But I wouldn't give a fucking flying heap of fucking bull crap that this site allows on here, and that means you and your fuckin stupid people you call friends. Also as for the moderator of the other group I could care less if you deleted me and banned me from there also...Please do.


themisskrissy 56F
2302 posts
6/28/2006 11:37 am

    Quoting rm_romanticlvr2:
    Good evening...I myself believe that people can't always be thruthful but if in my mind you have chatted with her for sometime and have seen her, Then I would believe the ladies story...
    I myself Have a Lady friend who sounds like the lady you are talking about..Actually too much of a coincidence...If we are talking about the same Lady Which her name is nancy,,,Then you are mistaken.
    Nancy is not a liar and is a good hearted person. I met her a year ago and have driven her to appointment for her daughter and have travelled with her too many places, But if we aren't talking about the same person ,Then my apoligies.
    But you should never believe other peoples stories ....I feel bad for what some are saying about my new dear friend and I myself feel disgusted if her name would be dragged into mud...But i do like your idea of blogs Cameron
tell us Cameron.. WHO is dragging NAMES into things..

nothing Steve said in his thread could be considered slanderous.. he did not mention anyone by name or handle..

your second post tells me that you indeed have some sort of agenda..
you didn't just fall out of the sky like dorothy's house in OZ! you have come here to stir shit..

i do not, nor have i ever participated in any chat rooms or groups Steve has, with the exception of his own. My extensive experience elsewhere on site indicates Steve is a straight shooter and above board honest... therefore a threat to the chicken shit gameplayers of the site.


"I myself wouldn't want a Man or woman complete strangers that don't really know a person to accuse anyone of being what they are not and thats what your doing here..."AND YOU KNOW STEVE HOW????
"You folks are unblieveable in assuming what you don't know, Get a life ...What type of site is this ? "KINDLY DEFINE YOU FOLKS.. YOU KNOW NOTHING OF ME... AND THEREFORE YOU ARE ASSUMING WHAT YOU DON'T KNOW..
"Though for myself you all have the right to say what you want.."NOW PLEASE TELL US WHO YOU ARE SPEAKING FOR THEN IF NOT YOURSELF.. "But first of all don't hurt people intentionally, It makes you look bad." FROM WHERE I SIT, IT IS YOU LOOKING BAD!


Virtue Alone Ennobles


rm_nopms 57F

6/28/2006 12:12 pm

omg time to grow up, yes I am a new member and thought there were was mature people here. I do not know u but if I agreed with what u said or anyone elses blog then u would not be calling me a imposter is what I get from this.

Sorry I joined up was looking for a nice group of people and which I am sure there is, but not into playing games with anyone's feelings.

delete all u want because i am not going to add anymore or bring myself down to this level. Life has more to offer than this crap here.

Everyone should take a look at their lives before throwing stones.

Maybe we all better find out more about the people we chat with to avoid this being written still cannot believe it.

And for pictures some are not what the people look like I never hide anything so why post a picture that is not up todate

Bye for all the nice people I have come across in the room. Sorry this happened.


TechSteve 49M

6/28/2006 3:49 pm

    Quoting rm_romanticlvr2:
    Please delete me...Ban me .. Ban and delete who cares, if your going to be this childish then what amd i suppose to do cry or something.
    But I wouldn't give a fucking flying heap of fucking bull crap that this site allows on here, and that means you and your fuckin stupid people you call friends. Also as for the moderator of the other group I could care less if you deleted me and banned me from there also...Please do.
You dont get to shit on my floor and walk away as if it didnt happen.

I HAVE YOUR ASS !!!!!


Your comments are going to stay here.

I dont have the power to delete you from that 'OTHER' group.

My point when it comes to her is that she wont hesitate to delete comments and ban people when she disagrees with you.

Steve


TechSteve 49M

6/28/2006 3:57 pm

    Quoting themisskrissy:
    tell us Cameron.. WHO is dragging NAMES into things..

    nothing Steve said in his thread could be considered slanderous.. he did not mention anyone by name or handle..

    your second post tells me that you indeed have some sort of agenda..
    you didn't just fall out of the sky like dorothy's house in OZ! you have come here to stir shit..

    i do not, nor have i ever participated in any chat rooms or groups Steve has, with the exception of his own. My extensive experience elsewhere on site indicates Steve is a straight shooter and above board honest... therefore a threat to the chicken shit gameplayers of the site.

    "I myself wouldn't want a Man or woman complete strangers that don't really know a person to accuse anyone of being what they are not and thats what your doing here..."AND YOU KNOW STEVE HOW????
    "You folks are unblieveable in assuming what you don't know, Get a life ...What type of site is this ? "KINDLY DEFINE YOU FOLKS.. YOU KNOW NOTHING OF ME... AND THEREFORE YOU ARE ASSUMING WHAT YOU DON'T KNOW..
    "Though for myself you all have the right to say what you want.."NOW PLEASE TELL US WHO YOU ARE SPEAKING FOR THEN IF NOT YOURSELF.. "But first of all don't hurt people intentionally, It makes you look bad." FROM WHERE I SIT, IT IS YOU LOOKING BAD!

I didnt mention an age or location too.

This can be one of many members who are currently on AdultFriendFinder.....and many thousands of people in the province of Ontario.

None of the regulars who read my blog would have known who I was talking about either.

I never mentioned this person in my blog or anywhere on the site.

Steve


TechSteve 49M

6/28/2006 4:12 pm

    Quoting rm_nopms:
    omg time to grow up, yes I am a new member and thought there were was mature people here. I do not know u but if I agreed with what u said or anyone elses blog then u would not be calling me a imposter is what I get from this.

    Sorry I joined up was looking for a nice group of people and which I am sure there is, but not into playing games with anyone's feelings.

    delete all u want because i am not going to add anymore or bring myself down to this level. Life has more to offer than this crap here.

    Everyone should take a look at their lives before throwing stones.

    Maybe we all better find out more about the people we chat with to avoid this being written still cannot believe it.

    And for pictures some are not what the people look like I never hide anything so why post a picture that is not up todate

    Bye for all the nice people I have come across in the room. Sorry this happened.
So you are trying to make me believe that you coming in here was just a coincidence ?????

It is time you were honest.

This is not a 'ROOM'

THIS IS MY BLOG. THIS IS MY PRIVATE SPACE. IT IS NOT A GROUP.

I never heard of you and I dont hang out in the places you do so you had to go out of your way to find this blog. You must have known me.

Steve


themisskrissy 56F
2302 posts
6/28/2006 6:08 pm

    Quoting rm_nopms:
    omg time to grow up, yes I am a new member and thought there were was mature people here. I do not know u but if I agreed with what u said or anyone elses blog then u would not be calling me a imposter is what I get from this.

    Sorry I joined up was looking for a nice group of people and which I am sure there is, but not into playing games with anyone's feelings.

    delete all u want because i am not going to add anymore or bring myself down to this level. Life has more to offer than this crap here.

    Everyone should take a look at their lives before throwing stones.

    Maybe we all better find out more about the people we chat with to avoid this being written still cannot believe it.

    And for pictures some are not what the people look like I never hide anything so why post a picture that is not up todate

    Bye for all the nice people I have come across in the room. Sorry this happened.
people who have turned off their profiles or have made them otherwise unavailable.. yeah, their posts just reek of credibility!!
nopms... you are just another stupid twat that is here to create shit...that is obvious.. this is not a public group, it is a private blog.. or are you too stupid to know the difference?
your intention here is obvious..
now do some growing up.. go back to your little twisted play friends and leave the real people alone..


Virtue Alone Ennobles


rm_nopms 57F

6/29/2006 9:30 am

well turned off my profile leaving AdultFriendFinder not into name calling and I have been reading blogs so name calling is something u have done I have not called anyone a name or have twisted friends so grow up if you are real person. Was told u made this comment.

Sit back and look at who calls people names.


themisskrissy 56F
2302 posts
6/29/2006 11:14 am

    Quoting rm_nopms:
    well turned off my profile leaving AdultFriendFinder not into name calling and I have been reading blogs so name calling is something u have done I have not called anyone a name or have twisted friends so grow up if you are real person. Was told u made this comment.

    Sit back and look at who calls people names.
lame lame lame... liar liar liar...

roflmao

have a good long weekend steve!!


Virtue Alone Ennobles


TechSteve 49M

6/30/2006 11:58 am

    Quoting themisskrissy:
    lame lame lame... liar liar liar...

    roflmao

    have a good long weekend steve!!
Thank you for your comments Miss Krissy.

Happy Canada day to you and to all Canadians.

Happy 4th of July to my American friends too

Steve


TechSteve 49M

7/2/2006 6:53 am

    Quoting Kofla_:
    This has been the funniest post I've read in a while. I think AdultFriendFinder could make millions of revenue income by putting together a TV reality show based on the groups and blogs drama. Thanks Steve, your blog is always entertaining!
There is always some drama going on somewhere on this site.

Steve


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