Are men the only ones guilty of treating the opposite sex like a piece of meat ?  

TechSteve 49M
1222 posts
5/12/2006 5:25 am

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5/20/2006 4:13 pm

Are men the only ones guilty of treating the opposite sex like a piece of meat ?

We are always told that men are visual and women are something else.

In my past, like many men, I have taken part in discussions about ladies that were not respectful. I have witnessed men on AdultFriendFinder acting like this in chatrooms and groups in front of ladies.

I was in a small chatroom last nite that is sometimes dominated by ladies, many of them older than me by a few yrs. I enjoy chatting with them most of the time.

But when they use terms like "hottie" or "eye candy" to describe men they saw during the day or ones that come in chat room with a cam, I get uncomfortable. Last nite they went on and on.

I dont act like that with them at all. I have never come in the chat room and talked about a woman in real time life the way they talk about a man. I never acted like they do when a new lady comes in the chatroom.

I am not going to be able to change them and I wouldnt even try to do it. When they get that way, I am just going to leave.


sexymamma662003 31F

5/12/2006 8:46 am

in many ways we women can be worst then men. i think in society it is ok for women to be that way and frowned upon when men do it.
i may call a man hott stuff. but i dont want any guy just for a piece of ass. i am not that way.


themisskrissy 56F
2302 posts
5/12/2006 8:15 pm

"i'll treat ya like a hunk of meat Steve... wink"

now if a guy had said that to a woman here he would be SHREDDED!!!

somehow there exists double standards when it comes to the sexual harassment/abuse of men by women...

the most uncivilized crowds i have ever witnessed in my life are women at a male stripper show....
if the men acted half as animal in a peeler bar in my neck of the woods he would be turfed out.. screaming and grabbing like maniacs is disrespectful to the dancers..

if a man says he is being sexually harassed by a woman, people make a joke of it... ask him if he is QUEER!! or say some other totally un-supportive and insulting thing..
it is shameful that men are held to a much higher standard than women in that regard..

Virtue Alone Ennobles

TechSteve 49M

5/20/2006 4:13 pm

Thank you both for your comments.

Miss Krissy, I have heard the same stuff about women in places where males strip and dance.


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