And some wonder why we don't respond...  

Tbirdwants 51F
16 posts
11/22/2005 6:19 pm

Last Read:
3/5/2006 9:27 pm

And some wonder why we don't respond...

This is how it all started: My profile specifically asks for a face picture (since I have about 50 emails a day showing nothing but dick) and it specifically states that I'm not looking for a relationship (as I am married) nor do I play without my husband...The first email I get is this: I’ll just use Initials, I think he’s embarrassed himself enough.
From: M: Picture.... A little one sided. Where is/are your face picture(s)?

I was courteous enough to check out his profile only to find out that he’s looking for a woman only… So why respond to mine??? I am quite frankly sick and tired of getting these emails only to then be degraded for not responding… Gee, if my profile says I’m not looking for “the man of my dreams” or “a one on one” and the auto responder says it YET AGAIN…. So I sent the following email back to him:

From T: On my husband's desk where they belong. Women are a little different we don't all look alike body wise. But wish I could say the same for "dick shots". Don't bother to write me back... it won't be necessary...

I thought that I clearly stated don’t write back… so imagine my surprise when I got:

From M: You're a complete moron.... except to state the obvious I've little to say to your kind. Your breed really does clutter up this site - I wish you'd take it somewhere else.

Well that just flat out pissed me off… Who does this person think he is… so I in return sent:

From T: Well obviously, "my breed" was interesting enough for you to email me in the first place. If you would have read the profile you would have noticed that I am not looking for a one on one relationship. Your response is very typical of the men on this site that expect a woman to just "jump" and send a photo of her face to a complete stranger that she knows nothing about. As said in previous email. Please do not write me back.. And I emphasize the Please....

His nerve… and some of the guys on this site wonder why women don’t respond or call us judgmental or even think we are bitches…. It’s because of emails like this that we don’t…

From M: In closing: I'm away. Contact with real people has been made. You've probably found by now that replies from you have been blocked. So, your picture is on hubby's desk where it belongs and you show pics of your back requesting face shots in reply. Only the stupid or desperate respond to that game. I hope that you find that which you truly deserve.

He must think that I will be heartbroken about this…”boo-hoo” I wanted to post this mainly because I think it is utterly ridiculous to be treated this way. Just read the F****** profile and quit wasting our time. And to any of those guys out there that don’t get a response from now on. You can thank M for that, as he has probably emailed others on this site the same way.

zoopc42 47M

11/22/2005 7:07 pm

well I understand your point but his point as well. I guess I am like switzerland. not taking sides and have some sweet chocolate..mmm chocolate....ok the chocolate was not nesseccarry

anyhow I understand that men alot of times don't read profiles. I still send winks to ones looking for women only. I guess it is the attention whore in me. an arguementive email, well no I don't do that.

the thing is it takes all kinds of people to make up this site.

Tbirdwants 51F

11/22/2005 7:35 pm

Sending a "wink" is completely different than an email. A "wink" to me shows interest but not "hounding" for the lack of a better word. To actually send an email takes time in writing what you want to say, which, if one has read a profile that states something oppposite of what one is looking for... Then why send it in the first place? or better yet, Why then get upset when a response isn't received.
Thanks for you comments. I'm just bitching and moaning due to the numerous Why aren't you responding to me emails I get, and then "M" was just the "icing" so to speak. I would offer a challenge to the men on this site.. In all seriousness, search for "men" on this site and see how many profile's pull up with a naked dick... Then look at them for 3 seconds and tell us women how to distinguish them from each other. If you search on "women", even those with no face shots posted, I dare to say that you could remember a woman's profile name based on her picture.

AughtMusedSpill 48M

11/22/2005 7:45 pm

I find it hilarious the amount of profiles I see from the blogs and networks of just a dick shot. I don't know everything about women, but I do know that there is a small, small percentage of women who would respond to that. But, I don't mind because it does make those of us who have a face shot and some nude pics for requests only look a little better hopefully.

That said, what a moron that guy is. It's bad enough to be caught for not reading your profile, but to compound it by insulting you, when before you replied he wanted to bed you, is a level of idiocy that is tough to match. Thanks for ripping him up and sharing it with us!

oldman1776 78M
3164 posts
11/22/2005 7:51 pm

There are allways the ass out there that think that there so hot that a woman will jump at the chance to be with them no matter what your profile says. I agree with you 100%.

Tbirdwants 51F

11/22/2005 8:10 pm

Thanks.. Oh and I almost forgot to mention.. For someone so hung up on a "face picture"... He has NO PICTURES posted on his profile... lol

P.S. Checked out your work.. Nice writings.. I'll have to bookmark them.

rm_kink4fem_or 46M
3 posts
12/2/2005 7:27 pm

I don't see how anyone could have not known exactly what you wanted? Dah! Most people on here are not for real.

amptnt 50M/42F
6 posts
12/3/2005 10:27 pm

First and foremost i understand your anger, I am very careful to read a profile and not ask or say anything the person does not want. if I am not what they are looking for, I tell the up front that I just enjoyed the profile. Good luck and enjoy life is what everyone enjoys hearing.

Now I think this M-Mike? guy only read part of your first paragraph and thought his unimaginative photo would get you turned on. Sorry for male assholes like that!

I quess you should post this is double bold and ask what part of this do you not understand?

""P.S. You MUST send a face picture!!!!! No Picture... No Talkie... ;o) Might help to read the blog first and save us all some trouble.. Tbirdwants ""

Again, sorry some of the males have no common sense.

I'll sign my name!


ps. the more I double check your profile before I post this, the more I understand your fustration.

Good Luck-Enjoy

I hope our FACIAL picture is good enough for you to respond to our email

Become a member to create a blog