Sometimes the book is better than the cover.  

TattooedWolf 47M
72 posts
5/30/2005 7:46 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Sometimes the book is better than the cover.

It’s a shame that people get hung up on looks.

I consider myself an average looking guy. There are days when I look better than others, but I will not be modeling for GQ anytime soon. My weight fluctuates from 190 to 285 depending on stress in my life, current relationship status or whether I’m just too fucking lazy to get to the gym. Right now I am working down from the high end of the scale. I think that I am somewhat lucky in that I seem to carry the excess weight evenly. Having broad shoulders helps and people just assume that I am an ex-college athlete or a bouncer. Regardless of how well I may or may not carry the extra mass, I notice that I do better in the “meeting women” department when I am around the weight I should be. Well ain’t that just a kick in the nuts?

I am the same person inside no matter what my weight. My sense of humor does not change, nor does my ability to eat pussy or fuck all night. But because I'm packing some extra weight, a second look will not occur. For the love of the Pete, get your head out of your ass. Some of the best sex I have had was with women that most men would not look at twice. So why jump into bed with them? Because they were good people, they were real people and their attitude and personality kicked ass. Come across with the right attitude and we can lots of fun. Sex appeal comes from the inside as well as the outside. Don't get me wrong, I can be shallow with the best of them and if given the opportunity to fuck a "10" I will, but if her attitude and personality suck then odds are pretty good that I’m going to tell her so.

So, don’t turn your nose up at someone just because they look less than perfect. You may be missing out on some really great sex. We’re not all Ken and Barbie clones. As a matter of fact, the rest of us far out number the beautiful people. Life is too short to spend time not connecting with people. Remember, it doesn’t matter how beautiful he or she is, somewhere somebody is tired of putting up with his or her shit.


rm_jayR63 59F
1884 posts
5/30/2005 4:51 pm

A "fluctuation" of almost 100 pounds? Is that a typo?
That's not fluctuation, that's a weight gain.
I'm a small woman, that's just one reason I have no interest in over weight men.

TattooedWolf 47M

5/30/2005 8:09 pm

Well Jay, you are entitled to your opinion. And you know what they say about opinions...

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