advices for seriously single females  

Tarzan9111 58M
2 posts
10/7/2005 4:28 pm

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advices for seriously single females

Since I'm obviously going to get no interest in me until I upgrade to silver- which I plan to do as soon as I return from a business trip- I'll spend the interim giving unneeded advice.

This is for all those women out there who state "they are seeking a relationship w/ a decent guy" and even for those who don't state that but are seeking one.

Three (3) <III> words:
Take the initiative

I'm not just talking about friendfinder but in general.

"Who me?" you may ask "I don't need to ask for guys: I can't get rid of 'em, I have to beat 'em off w/ a stick" you may say.

Exactly!!! You have to beat them off because you're lying there like a raccoon on the freeway getting run over by all the wrong guys. The ones that you want are one the sidelines not asking you because they see that you're surrounded by a swarm of [freeloaders/deadbeats/smucks/ select adjective].

Of course there are risks.. The guy could say no (temporarily damaging to anyone's self-esteem) but not fatal & you'll get over it.

Anyhow tht's my viewpoint from being a fairly old guy and seeing things from a guy's point of view.

keithcancook 60M
17718 posts
10/7/2005 7:12 pm

Interesting perspective. Perhaps it works. I just recieved an email from a local girl with a very nice pic right out of the blue.

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